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Dresses without a defined waist

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teabagwoman Thu 13-Aug-26 11:40:38

I’m having a bit of a clothes problem. I’ve always worn separates because the waistlines on dresses are never in the right place for me. Now however I’m finding that all my skirts and trousers slip down onto my hip bones which is uncomfortable and makes them look baggy. Watching The GB sewing Bee I thought I might try the sort of dresses that Esme wears. Does anybody know where I might find them? I’m partially sighted so trawling the internet is difficult.

westendgirl Thu 13-Aug-26 11:43:41

Try Seasalt. I have some of their waistless dresses. They have lovely fabrics too. You could also look for a shirt dress and not wear the belt.Hope you find something

Fairislecable Thu 13-Aug-26 11:57:42

I have always bought seasalt dresses but without a waistband, as I am tall and it’s always too high (even if I buy from the tall range).

This year quite a lot of designs have a waistline and are in the sale and I am wondering if I am not alone and the waisted dresses haven’t sold.

Usually if they are called a shift dress they have no waistline.

However their clothing is very good quality fabric.

MT62 Thu 13-Aug-26 12:05:34

Loved the drop waists when they were the fashion. Of course I was very slim back then.

Usedtobeblonde Thu 13-Aug-26 12:15:26

As I have no defined waist myself that is exactly the sort of dress I have been looking for with no success so it’s still trousers and loose tops for me.

Ladyleftfieldlover Thu 13-Aug-26 12:26:17

I’m wearing a Seasalt dress as we speak. It’s in organic cotton and is basically a shift with short sleeves and pockets.

Aveline Thu 13-Aug-26 12:32:23

I'm wearing a White Stuff linen shift dress. Very cool and comfortable

aonk Thu 13-Aug-26 12:36:26

Have you tried an empire line! Fitted until below the bust line. They often have a sash to tie at the back. I wear these a lot as I have a big tummy

AskAlice Thu 13-Aug-26 12:43:14

I think the dresses that look fabulous on Esme are more of a cocoon shape, like a shift but with a wider waist and tapering slightly to the bottom. I make my own clothes and have several of this style and they are very comfortable to wear, especially in this hot weather. They have short grown-on sleeves so no tight sleeve seams to irritate either.

Maybe some of the other posters have seen this type of dress in the shops or online and can give you a pointer...?

JamesandJon33 Thu 13-Aug-26 15:26:50

Try Toast…but they are expensive.

teabagwoman Thu 13-Aug-26 17:14:38

I’ll have a look at Toast, if I can find the right dress I may persuade myself to pay their prices.

NotSpaghetti Thu 13-Aug-26 17:23:09

Just copied and pasted this here from an online magazine.
WOMAN'S WAY

Sewing Bee
Designer Esme Young reveals the styles she likes, her favourite garb and her fashion sense.

The Great British Sewing Bee judge Esme Young doesn’t have a designer wardrobe – because she makes so many of her own clothes.

As well as judging the hit show, in which budding seamsters compete to win one of TV’s hardest creative challenges, the 73-year-old designer – who made her first skirt at the age of seven – teaches at Central Saint Martins, the art school where she learned her trade. She has also just written her autobiography, Behind The Seams. She has designed costumes for film stars including Leonardo DiCaprio and Grace Jones, and created the bunny outfit worn by Renee Zellweger in Bridget Jones’ Diary.

Here, she gives us a peek into her fashion style, and reveals what she keeps in her wardrobe.


What is your preferred style?
“I like wearing dresses. They shouldn’t be too tight, frankly, because I’m a bit too old for that.

When you buy clothes, where do you buy from?

“I mostly buy from Cos. A lot of women of my age and a bit younger buy from Cos.”

What about fabrics?
“I really like fabrics which I buy from my final year [students] which they have printed. Then I make clothes out of them. It makes it personal. I’m drawn to bright colours, but I also like dark colours. As a kid, I used to like pink, surprisingly, though I did have a very nice Black Watch Tartan dress that my mum bought me.

“I like linen a lot. I try to go to Greece every year and I make clothes to wear there. Linen is a really cool fabric.”

What’s in your wardrobe now?
“I haven’t got a huge wardrobe. I put my summer clothes under the bed when it’s winter and then I have quite a few trousers and dresses I’ve made. At my workshop, I’ve got a Swanky Modes archive, where I’ve got old clothes of my mum’s and of mine.”

Do you have any designer clothes?
“No. I’ve never really been into designer clothes – also I can’t afford them. Because I design and make clothes for myself, I don’t feel the need to make designer clothes.”

Do you have a favourite outfit?
I cut patterns for a designer called Ashish, who was one of my students. He’s given me various jackets and they are really quite special.”

Which sewing items do you take with you to work?
“I can use spare machines at Sewing Bee and take my scissors, tape measure and buttons.”

Did you sew during lockdown?

“Well, I don’t have a sewing machine at home and didn’t want to go into the studio in Hackney, so I did a lot of hand sewing. I altered various clothes, I made some masks, I made some cushion covers.”

Do you buy many clothes?
“I’m stopping buying clothes and want to re-wear clothes I’ve got. All I need to do is change the necklace and people won’t notice.

“The other thing about buying clothes is that it’s a treat and it makes people feel better – but that feeling doesn’t last very long.”

NotSpaghetti Thu 13-Aug-26 17:24:15

Here's another;

simplysewingmag.com/news/esme-young-great-british-sewing-bee?hl=en-GB#:~:text=Inspired%20by%20fashion%20magazines%2C%20she%20began%20buying,them%20to%20suit%20her%20own%20unique%20style.

Cossy Thu 13-Aug-26 17:24:40

Next have some online, all sizes, all cotton

Primrose53 Thu 13-Aug-26 17:30:33

I avoid dresses with a waistline, always have. They just don’t suit me or my daughter come to that. There was a trend years ago for dresses with a dropped waist and they quite suited me.

I have a dress by Orientique which goes in at the waist but doesn’t have a sewn waistline and one by East which I love. I have a few by Gudrun Sjoden in plain colours and they always feel nice to wear.