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Do you feel lucky?

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nanna8 Mon 13-Jul-26 13:53:52

I feel incredibly grateful and lucky that I have a belief in God and his son, Jesus. For many years I just longed to have faith that I witnessed in others. One day, bam, it happened. Just out of the blue really. So good, life changing.

M0nica Mon 13-Jul-26 14:17:43

I am not sure about luck, but I do feel that my family as a whole has been fortunate in many forms.

By that I do not mean that we have not had our tragedies and our disasters, but somehow things usually turn out OK in the end, but I do not know whether that is an in-built resilience or good luck.

Newatthis Mon 13-Jul-26 14:23:15

How did it happen nanna8? I have always believed in God but I have never had that 'Bam' feeling that I have heard so many Christians say they have had. I feel very lucky to have the family I have, we are all very close and I have a very strong relationship with my adult children, grandchildren and husband.

Judy54 Mon 13-Jul-26 17:29:00

Yes I too feel grateful that I have a belief in God. Not life changing for me as he has always been part of my life. Not sure that it makes me lucky or any luckier than my non-Christian friends. All of us have dealt with happiness and sadness so whether people have a faith or not does not mean that problems in life do not come our way. God can be a comfort during difficult times but cannot necessarily take our suffering away. That's just the way of the world.

SpinDriftCoastal Mon 13-Jul-26 17:45:34

It comes down mostly to where, when, and to whom you were born.

Cossy Mon 13-Jul-26 18:55:39

I consider myself and our family to be fortunate in many ways.

I feel I’m quite a spiritual person but not the sense of Christianity r other formal religions.

I’m not sure how to explain really, but at times, even in times of crisis I can still feel hope and an inner peace.

I think anyone born into a civilised country, with good free education and access to healthcare to be fortunate.

I’m not sure I’d consider myself either “lucky” or “unlucky”

Cossy Mon 13-Jul-26 18:56:01

SpinDriftCoastal

It comes down mostly to where, when, and to whom you were born.

Yes! I truly believe this.

JaneJudge Mon 13-Jul-26 19:04:33

not in life as I've had so much loss

but I have been happily married for almost 3 decades (I'm almost 50) and I've had a lovely marriage and even though one our children (now adult) has a severe disability we've all stuck together as a family and made the best out of life and that has always been very important to me

I don't believe in God but I feel blessed with this

Fallingstar Mon 13-Jul-26 19:24:23

Identify as Jewish but am not religious.
Not lucky, not for the past two years anyway, the family have had a dreadful time of it. But I believe luck is random anyway so don’t take it personally especially seeing as the family have enjoyed much better times in the past.
Believe in a God but not a God that only cheer leads a certain religion.

25Avalon Mon 13-Jul-26 19:28:43

I can’t help but believe although I doubt. When my son was diagnosed with a life limiting illness I swore at God and blasphemed. In so doing I realised that I did actually believe.

Sago Mon 13-Jul-26 19:31:22

I was brought up a Roman Catholic in a mainly Irish community in England, I’m always surprised there wasn’t an Angelus Bell in the street.
Having Irish Catholic parents religion was not an option.

I spent a lot of my childhood petrified of the nuns at school, petrified of committing a mortal sin and convinced I would end up in hell.

As an adult my relationship with God is much better.

I don’t feel it necessary to go to Mass/Church very often and I am happy to go to CofE, RC, CofI, we all have the same God.

I suppose what I am saying is religion was a chore as a child and young adult and I took God for granted.

I think now I am more appreciative and spiritual.

petra Mon 13-Jul-26 19:52:45

SpinDriftCoastal

It comes down mostly to where, when, and to whom you were born.

Very true.
Luck is having the opportunity to get out of that situation.
As I did.

nanna8 Tue 14-Jul-26 02:04:25

We have a few Chinese people in our church who have fairly recently arrived in the country. They are very faithful and very devout - possibly because they have experienced an oppressive regime where they used to live. Similar when we reach out to some of the African nations - they are so grateful and so totally followers of Christ they make me ashamed. They live it every day and are very convicted. Me, I spent years just ignoring it all and thinking it was just an oppressive right wing means of control.

Padstow13 Tue 14-Jul-26 02:06:38

Luck or serendipity?

Toetoe Tue 14-Jul-26 02:46:44

I don't feel lucky or unlucky as I can't believe in whatever that is but I do have a faith that feels deep and has helped me become wiser . It doesn't stop the pain from whatever hits me in but I wouldn't want to live without it .

HobbyCat Tue 14-Jul-26 14:04:56

To me religion is nonsensical and I feel lucky despite this! I have five grown up sons, two teenage granddaughters and a successful YouTube channel. I love where I live and the surrounding area is lovely.

Romola Tue 14-Jul-26 14:27:03

I consider myself lucky to live in a country with decent if not perfect public services, utilities and transport networks, also a faulty but functioning democracy (bring on PR).
That's why people from countries where these things don't exist want to come here.

keepcalmandcavachon Tue 14-Jul-26 14:30:35

I feel very lucky in respect of having an the awareness -
that we are living in such times-
that to be right here on my comfy chair, with an iced tea, wondering what to have for dinner and whether to go to town tommorow or make a start on some decorating is-
the most massive stroke of luck, which most people in the world will never get.
It makes most of the humdrum of life that can appear mundane actually extraordinarily precious.
If you change I've got to change the bedding, water the plants to-
I get to change the bedding blah,blah it all becomes a bit humbling!

AuntieE Tue 14-Jul-26 14:31:57

For me lucky is not quite the right word, but I do not now what would be a better one.

I am very grateful to God that He let me be born in a family that believed, even although my parents were not regular church goers (which probably is why I am a regular attendent at Mass).

Mother, aunts, grandmothers etc. read me bible stories from picture books for children before I learned to read, taught me to pray before sleeping at night, Christmas and Easter were very, very big events. I still tend to visulize the Virgin Mary exactly as she looks in my mother's paper nativity scene which was a focal point of my childhood Christmases.

I have often wondered why it is the women in the family who talk to small children about God and the Baby Jesus? No man, in my childhood did so, unless he was a Reverend or a priest!

To me believing in God means that the difficult times of my life did not leave me hopeless, even when I was greatly distressed and the good times may actually be better too - but how does one judge that? After all, I do not feel what others feel.

Mojack26 Tue 14-Jul-26 14:37:59

🙏

keepcalmandcavachon Tue 14-Jul-26 14:47:05

Sorry, just realised this thread is in Religion/Spirituality my post was more about 'life lucky'.
I wasn't brought up with any religion and or Christened, my belief system is now Pagan, so yes I feel very lucky have it in my life as it informs my path so to speak!