Retreat

Might be good for your moral fibre! Or perhaps he knew that and thought it might be good idea? Have you been talking the poor soul to death?

A friend of mine, who is a buddhist, spends an inordinate time going on retreats. I can see that they have their place, but in the main we need to be plugged into society and our neighbours I think. Once a year should be enough.

Not having to talk for a week would be a great excuse to listen to music and read - I think I could cope with that!

Would posting on GN count?

As far as I am aware there is no music or computers - just attending lectures and then spending time in silent contemplation. I'm more of a sit around having a lively discussion type

Mmm think I'm the same! Love discussions.

Hi sunseeker I went on a silent retreat a few years ago and I really treasure the memory. I usually live my life in a constant whirl of needy people and busyness so to go away for ten days and not have to talk, or more importantly in my case, to listen to other people was a real treat. It felt as though I was being very self-indulgent, but it was a great opportunity to recharge my batteries and just have some uninterrupted 'thinking' time. I came home feeling refreshed and energised - much to the confusion of friends and family alike who had thought I would find the silence difficult.

I think I'd feel the same, ga, although I don't know how I'd be able to stop the talking to myself I seem to be doing more and more these days....

I might like it? I'd try a very short one first though!

Half a day for starters maybe?

No. I can spend 3-4 days here without speaking to anyone?

You could try a local Quaker meeting as a starting point. Meetings last an hour or so and are silent unless someone ministers.
There's lively discussion to be had afterwards too, at least there is at the meeting I attend.

We do have meeting room in my town.but there is no parking convenient.
One of the most delightful and tranquil of my fellow students at medical school was a Quaker. She was wonderful and liked by all.

Like Galen I often spend days without speaking to anyone.
I have in the past been on silent retreats of up to 10 days.
I think you will find it a profound,amazing experience.
sunseeker you have reminded me that it would be good to programme a silent retreat into my life.When at home I too easily turn to the radio or TV -or to GN!!