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Gestures, come on, admit that you use them!

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phoenix Tue 01-Jan-19 17:38:31

Hello all, and Happy New Year to you.

Now, hands up who hasn't wandered around the kitchen (or elsewhere) making "snipping" movements with their index and second finger, to indicate that you are looking for the scissors?

If you have your hands up, you are either weird or fibbing!

So, confession time, I have developed a new one blush.

Recently I have found myself in the kitchen (nowhere else does this occurr) with both hands out in front of me, in a vertical rather than horizontal position, thumbs uppermost and raised away from the other fingers.

Shouldn't be too hard to guess what it is that I have misplaced, although sometimes it is down to Mr P putting the item somewhere else!

lemongrove Tue 01-Jan-19 17:42:24

Sorry Phoenix but I have never done this, ever! Not fibbing and not weird grin ( much )
Looking for marigolds?

BlueBelle Tue 01-Jan-19 17:47:17

No nor me, never walk round with my hands making shapes Perhaps you are unique Phoenix and no idea what you are looking for ...Cook book ? Can’t say I ve seen anyone else doing it either ?

Jalima1108 Tue 01-Jan-19 17:51:16

I do know people who 'talk' with their hands - some of them in my family! Perhaps I should check to see if I do it as well.

phoenix Tue 01-Jan-19 17:51:19

Surely you must have done the scissor thing? I thought everyone's did that shock

phoenix Tue 01-Jan-19 17:52:13

"Everyone" damn tablet!

Cherrytree59 Tue 01-Jan-19 17:53:33

Oven tray?

I use a similar gesture when trying to explain how wide something is.
By moving hands (as you have described) apart or towards each other --sounds a clear as mud--hmm

Maybelle Tue 01-Jan-19 17:54:19

Oven gloves ?
I use gesture all the time

Grammaretto Tue 01-Jan-19 17:59:53

Could be gloves but I don't do gestures. My sister does and has just almost broken a cut glass bowl here in my house with her overactive hands.
She made me very nervous.

phoenix Tue 01-Jan-19 18:07:09

Well done Maybelle! Oven gloves is exactly right, and so very glad it isn't only me!

When finished with them, I put them on the handle of the oven, Mr P however will often put them on the back of a chair!

Cherrytree59 Tue 01-Jan-19 18:10:43

As I had a profoundly dead parent I have always talked with my hands to aid his lip reading (useful now DH has hearing problems, as apparently I often mutter!).

Amazing how over the years you update.
for example telephone ☎ has gone from hand clenched fist action over the ear to the updated thumb and pinky finger spread over ear.

So yes Phoenix I often do the scissor thing✂ and the book thing and use fingers to represent going upstairs etc etc.

But as I often forget words it has come in quite useful.
added in few 'thingymejigs and whatnots'

NanTheWiser Tue 01-Jan-19 18:16:18

" I had a profoundly dead parent " - oooh, Cherrytree59, what a typo! Shame there is no edit button, but always a good idea to preview message before you post!

janeainsworth Tue 01-Jan-19 18:20:54

As I had a profoundly dead parent I have always talked with my hands to aid his lip reading

I trust that was a typo Cherrytree grin

Sorry, I realise that's in appalling taste but I couldn't resist. blush
And no, I never use gestures, except perhaps pointing two fingers forward simultaneously to indicate to DGC that it's time to stop messing and get out of the front door NOWgrin

Jane10 Tue 01-Jan-19 18:26:37

Both my parents are profoundly dead now. It's better than only being slightly dead I suppose.

Alima Tue 01-Jan-19 18:26:54

Didn’t think you meant this sort of gesture. The way my mind works.

Beau Tue 01-Jan-19 18:37:24

Don't think I ever use gestures - it sounds very flamboyant - and I'm not ?

sodapop Tue 01-Jan-19 18:50:46

And me Alima,

oldbatty Tue 01-Jan-19 18:54:43

I think gestures are fascinating. I have a particular way of putting on a coat which is exactly the same ( apparently) as a relative I never met.

My sons and my niece spend no time together and yet I observe the same gestures. Also the cultural differences in gestures are so interesting.

BBbevan Tue 01-Jan-19 18:58:54

DH wanted be to buy something in Tesco but for a moment couldn't remember what they were called. So he made a circular motion with his index finger pointing downwards.

Yorkshire puddings !!!!!

Bathsheba Tue 01-Jan-19 19:03:25

Oh I gesture a lot too and so does my DH - he always does this little scribble in mid air, a mime for writing, instead of asking for the bill.
I can't talk about anything/anyone upstairs without pointing upwards ??

Jalima1108 Tue 01-Jan-19 19:06:45

I've just realised that I asked DH if he wanted a glass of wine, at the same time tipping my right hand as if drinking …..

janeainsworth Tue 01-Jan-19 19:09:56

If I'm in the garden and MrA is wondering if I'd like a cup of tea, he comes to the window and makes a 'T' sign with his two index fingers.
Not that he needs to ask, really brewgrin

Gonegirl Tue 01-Jan-19 19:11:46

With me it's more verbal. "Glasses! Glasses! Anyone seen my glasses?" Whereupon husband helpfully proceeds to turn the place upside down.

Jalima1108 Tue 01-Jan-19 19:11:54

I do the tipping sign - so it could be brew or wine or even cider or beer!

Gonegirl Tue 01-Jan-19 19:13:01

Although I do make a drinking from cup gesture to get DH in from shed for his coffee.