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Would this be hypocrisy?

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Antonia Tue 19-Dec-17 16:33:36

I am not religious, but do love the Christmas carols. Would it be hypocritical to go to a church Christmas carol service? I thought about going to one on Sunday but in the end I didn't, but might think about it for next year. I don't normally go to church.

MissAdventure Tue 19-Dec-17 16:36:27

I'm sure there will be lots of (conflicting!) views, but I don't see anything wrong with going along to a service. I'm sure that is how some people found faith.

kitlong Tue 19-Dec-17 16:36:39

Any Church would welcome you and anyone else regardless

whitewave Tue 19-Dec-17 16:37:42

No! Embrace our cultural heritage! That’s what the Christians did by celebrating Christmas in the middle of winter.

MissAdventure Tue 19-Dec-17 16:38:34

I'm sure the banners outside our church says "all welcome".

M0nica Tue 19-Dec-17 16:40:49

No, of course not. We had a Muslim friend staying with us one year, he insisted on coming to church with us and I was so happy with it because the service and our priest were so openly welcoming to everybody regardless of creed or no creed.

paddyann Tue 19-Dec-17 16:42:44

I'm not a believer ,but I take my Mum -in -law to church when she stays with us...mind you the minister is a good friend so I know he wont chuck me out,and the sermons are always good

MissAdventure Tue 19-Dec-17 16:44:35

I used to go to a church regularly with a man with a learning disability, as I was his keyworker. I thoroughly enjoyed it after a while.

Baggs Tue 19-Dec-17 16:48:54

No, it wouldn't be hypocrisy, antonia. Music is an art form and one's allowed to enjoy it and take part in it. Some of my favourite music (actually most of my favourite music!) is religiously flavoured (JS Bach and Handel).

Antonia Tue 19-Dec-17 16:57:14

Thank you for all your positive replies. I will give it a go next year.

Anniebach Tue 19-Dec-17 16:57:25

Do go, enjoy the carols, and not being religious ,what ever that is will not stop you enjoying the fellowship , the welcome and the joyful carols ?

hildajenniJ Tue 19-Dec-17 17:02:58

Yes, go to Church. I love the Christmas Carol Service. Our local Methodist Chapel has a Christmas Eve midnight service which is lovely. I don't go the rest of the year, having had a fall out with a previous Minister.
(Long story). I'm always made welcome even so.

Galen Tue 19-Dec-17 17:16:08

Gabriel’s message:- beautiful

maryeliza54 Tue 19-Dec-17 17:19:15

I nearly always go to a carol service - the carols are lovely especially by candlelight.Far too good to just leave to the Christians ?

maryeliza54 Tue 19-Dec-17 17:20:08

And I love a good ‘Messiah’

midgey Tue 19-Dec-17 17:28:29

Antonia it’s not too late to go this year!

lemongrove Tue 19-Dec-17 17:29:55

You go Antonia and enjoy the whole atmosphere.tchsmile

Wheniwasyourage Tue 19-Dec-17 17:51:44

Yes of course, go. You would be welcome at our church!

Jalima1108 Tue 19-Dec-17 18:48:36

It's not too late for this year Antonia
tchsmile

varian Tue 19-Dec-17 19:19:43

Go for it. The Carol service is very enjoyable and jolly, even if you don't actually believe. It is as much part of our culture as the other Xmas traditions.

Make sure you give a generous donation to the upkeep of your local church or to whatever worthy charity is being supported.

No-one is going to stop you on the way out of the church and interrogate you as to whether or not you are a proper Christian,.

Galen Tue 19-Dec-17 19:42:37

Define a proper Christian rather than an improper one?

varian Tue 19-Dec-17 19:49:12

I wouldn't know where to start, galen

Esspee Tue 19-Dec-17 19:50:06

Why leave it until next year? I am sure there will be other services between now and Christmas Day. (not trying to convert you, I'm a non believer myself grin)

Antonia Tue 19-Dec-17 20:01:43

I have found another service which I'll go to. Thank you, you lovely people!

Nandalot Tue 19-Dec-17 20:13:19

Pleased for you. Enjoy it.