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Ehlers-Danloss Syndrome

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Jayanna9040 Tue 02-May-17 10:11:14

Not sure Chat is the right forum but Health is so off-putting!
Having received a pasting from the estrangement threads I decided not to post any more but I found out last night that May is Ehlers-Danloss Syndrome Awareness month, so I felt that it was meant that I should make this my last post.

ED is a genetic condition that affects the production of collagen in the body. That doesn't sound too bad but it's symptoms can range from mild stretchy skin to the permanent dislocation of joints and the collapse of vital internal organs.

It has only been diagnosed relatively recently and there is no test to identify carriers, no treatment and no cure.

It was this condition that gave my grandmother and mother their severe disabilities from their early thirties and led to their early deaths. That caused my sister's and daughter's inability to carry babies to term. That caused the death of a grandchild. That has led my sons to the decision that they will not father children that will, at the very least, be carriers of this condition.

I thank you for reading this far. If you see someone shaking a box in the street in this Awareness month please consider dropping in the odd 50p. If they can dislocate their shoulders and pop them back in again that might be me doing one of my party tricks ?
You can find more info on Facebook if you are interested. Thank you.

Izabella Tue 02-May-17 10:17:15

Yes I know of it through my job visiting an extended family carrying this burden.

Don't be put off GN by a pasting on other threads. It often happens. Try soops kitchen. Many of us seek refuge there and find great kindness and support.

Galen Tue 02-May-17 10:21:20

I'm a sufferer as well. It's a right pain. Led me to having my first hip replacement at age 49. I've now had 3.
Generalised OA has led to me being very immobile. But you should see me racing up and down the corridors on a cruise ship on my luggie scooter!

norose4 Tue 02-May-17 10:21:42

Wow Jayanna , that's a very bitter pill to swallow, none of us knows what other people may be going through as we pass by in the street, I really feel for you & yours &anyone else who is suffering . My grandchild has 4 unusual conditions 3 of which none of us were aware existed . I will have my 50p plus at the ready .good wishes to you all .

MawBroon Tue 02-May-17 10:22:25

Thank,you for brining this to us. What a sad burden to carry in any family, how easily most of us take things for granted.
flowers

Jayanna9040 Tue 02-May-17 10:28:04

Glad you're having a good time Galen. Not all doom and gloom is it?

Cherrytree59 Tue 02-May-17 10:44:41

Jayanne Please don't leave!
you may be able to discuss with others the problems that you and your love ones face

Look what you have achieved with just one Post.
You have already discovered that a least one other on GN is suffering from this awful condition.
And have made others like myself aware.
You have much to contribute to GN
flowers for any upset caused

I have a very close family member who lives her life with a very difficult condition that at this moment can only be managed .
I cannot give details as must respect privacy.
But people can cause much hurt.

Whatever you decision I wish you well

Galen Tue 02-May-17 11:25:19

Life is what you make of it!
Most embarrassing dislocation I've had was reaching out in bed to get my kindle and my shoulder popped out. Couldn't replace the dammed thing myself and ended with a night in casualty! Grrrrr! NHS is definitely not what it was!

POGS Tue 02-May-17 12:02:27

Jayanna

Thank you for starting this thread.

I had never heard of this horrid illness and I will most certainly do as you request.

flowers

kezia Tue 02-May-17 12:09:10

Fellow EDSer here smile

Jalima1108 Tue 02-May-17 12:32:30

Jayanna I will!

It must be very debilitating. I had heard of ligament laxity, in fact I have that and it does cause some problems (particularly with walking) but had not heard of this syndrome which sounds so very much worse.

I am sorry that it has caused so much distress to members of your family.
flowers

Don't be put off posting on other threads.

Nandalot Tue 02-May-17 13:03:19

Thank you very much for making us aware of this condition. I had not heard of it before. The repercussions of suffering from it are so much more than I imagined. I shall look out for the collecting boxes.

harrigran Tue 02-May-17 13:38:11

I was aware of the condition and the limitations imposed on sufferers, think Izzie in Coronation street. I will certainl be donating as medical charities are where my money goes.

Lazigirl Tue 02-May-17 13:56:02

I first heard about this condition on the Today prog this morning. A couple were suspected of injuring their baby when it was admitted to hospital with "shaken baby syndrome". The mother researched and found the condition by googling it, and the baby was indeed found to have Ehlers-Danloss Syndrome, and they were proved to be totally innocent. How distressing that they had to do the research themselves and it was apparently not diagnosed initially by the hospital.

Anya Tue 02-May-17 14:59:41

Jayanna I'm glad you've come back and made us aware of this syndrome. This must be so hard for your family sad

I will certainly give to research so that more can be found out about Ehlers-Danloss Syndrome.

flowers

downtoearth Tue 02-May-17 18:50:58

jayanna would this be the same as a person who is double jointed ...my OH neice suffers from this condition

grannypiper Tue 02-May-17 18:52:43

Jayanna Woah there, dont go just because some people are bloody awful, this is your Gransnet as much as anyone else flowers

BlueBelle Tue 02-May-17 19:25:11

I hadn't heard of this either so thanks for bringing it to our attending sounds awful

Don't disappear because of other posts we all take a pasting sometimes I m thinking

M0nica Tue 02-May-17 19:52:05

We think DDiL may have it. She has been to and from the doctor and hospital for over 5 years being told she has hypermobility syndrome and a variety of different types of arthritis, what variety varies from year to year. In the end she got so fed up with her uncertain and constantly changing diagnosis, that she did her own research and came to the conclusion her symptoms fitted this syndrome perfectly, so is off to the doctor to get another referral to the specialist to suggest it. Even a 'no' would be a step forward.

Thankfully, in her case, whatever she has, it has not stopped her having children, but since the diagnosis she and DD have stopped having competitions to see who is the most flexible!

Izabella Tue 02-May-17 20:24:07

downtoearth this is very much NOT the same as double jointed, although joint hyper mobility is part of the picture. EDS is an extremely dibilitating syndrome of several differing types often resulting in early death and is genetically linked through both or one parent and sometimes with no genetic history at all. In early childhood expected milestones are often delayed It is a rare disease of connective tissues with specific facial features too. There is no definitive test for it and diagnosis is by physical examination, family history and ultimately through genetic appraisal.

kittylester Tue 02-May-17 20:49:19

A friend's daughter has recently been diagnosed with this, aged 25. She has been really depressed as no one could come up with an answer to her various problems.

downtoearth Tue 02-May-17 21:15:14

Thank you for explaining Izabella

morethan2 Tue 02-May-17 21:51:04

I have heard of it but thankfully never come across it. I am sorry that that it has affected you and yours. Don't leave. Feelings run high on the estrangement threads because of the pain they bear. Please don't take it personally. There are other threads and I hope to see you on them.

Nelliemoser Tue 02-May-17 22:50:11

I have heard of the condition. I met someone on holiday who has this. I wasn't sure of the name. Horrible thing.

cornergran Tue 02-May-17 23:08:56

jayanna please don't think all threads carry the same level of tension, there are calmer waters. i'm sorry members of your family have had so many challenges. It seems other GN members share your experiences. I hope you can feel supported here.