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goldengirl Tue 29-Jul-14 22:01:20

I had yet another one if those irritating phone calls today. We seem to get them at around the same time of day at the moment. Anyway in case it was family (there's a lot going on here at present) I took up the phone and said hallo.
After a short gap which gave me a clue that it wasnt family a male voice on the other end asked to speak to Mrs Goldengirl. I said she wasn't available and was about to put the phone down when he asked why not. I repeated that she wasn't available and he quickly said what is she doing then. I told him it was none of his business and as i was putting the phone down he said rather loudly F* you and rang off! I admit to being quite shocked - which is unusual for me. Perhaps he was having a bad day!

The conversation if you can call it that took much less time than its taken me to write it and each time he asked his questions very quickly. I tried 1471 but surprise surprise the number was withheld. If there had been a number I would have asked to speak to a manager.

And then a police officer turned up...........but that saga is on another thread. What a couple of days it's been shock

Nanabelle Tue 29-Jul-14 22:40:17

So annoying aren't they. I do the same as you usually and say "she is not available" though sometimes I ask them to hold the line and then put the phone down next to a very loudly playing radio with music on!
If his call was being recorded, he will be in trouble!
Just put it out of your mind. When we are in a run of these calls, sometimes I wait for the answer phone to click in and then call back if it is a friend/relative after all.

rosesarered Tue 29-Jul-14 22:47:23

They are annoying, but try not to get into a conversation. I just say no and then ring off.

Ana Tue 29-Jul-14 22:50:45

I usually ask 'Who's calling?' then I get the gist of what the spiel's going to be and say, loudly 'No thank you!' and put the phone down.

suebailey1 Wed 30-Jul-14 08:34:52

was it Trevor?

Nonu Wed 30-Jul-14 08:46:40

I very often just bother answering my phone!

I know that if it is either family or friends and it is an important call they will ring the mobile !
smile

Agus Wed 30-Jul-14 09:11:46

I had the same response last week when I told a cold caller, no thank you, his reply was F... Off. They obviously feel very brave because they know the number is withheld angry

kittylester Wed 30-Jul-14 09:16:58

It is so unfair to withhold the number! I 've posted before that some important people (in my life) withhold their number so I have no option but to answer! Our mobiles get a very unreliable signal in our house so are not an option!

Riverwalk Wed 30-Jul-14 09:45:40

kitty have you joined the Telephone Preference Service? Since joining I get very few unsolicited calls, apart from the odd overseas one.

numberplease Wed 30-Jul-14 11:12:29

Most of our nuisance calls come from abroad, so TFS is no use. I too have no option but to answer when it says withheld, because my sister and our youngest son also come up as withheld.

numberplease Wed 30-Jul-14 11:13:04

Most of our nuisance calls come from abroad, so TFS is no use. I too have no option but to answer when it says withheld, because my sister and our youngest son also come up as withheld.

Riverwalk Wed 30-Jul-14 11:21:25

number can't you ask family members to not withhold their numbers when they call you?

Elegran Wed 30-Jul-14 11:22:23

Same here. There are hardly any nuiosance calls from this country. Most are incomprehensible as well as being unwanted.

glammanana Wed 30-Jul-14 11:23:23

I had a couple of these this week and the last one a couple of days ago was when I had just sat down to watch TV,hello can I speak to mrs glamma,she's not home says I knowing it was a sales call, when will she be back? don't know says I, do you have time to do a short survey for me ? say's he, yes OK say's I then he goes through a big long spiel of the data protection act etc etc then ask's me what age range do I fit? 18-26,26-40,40-75 ? oh none of those, says I we have now been on the phone about 10mins,what age are you ? says himself,oh me I'm just 16 (I wish) and he said I had wasted his time as I was too young to take details from,at least it saved someone else the hassle and I found it quite amusing really as I could see the steam coming out of the handset. grin

sunseeker Wed 30-Jul-14 13:11:18

The one I am getting is a recorded message saying I am entitled to a new boiler paid for by the government. As all my heating and hot water is done by my Rayburn do you think the government will let me have £7,500 to buy a new one grin What does annoy me is the recording only gives an option to be put through to a salesperson, not an option to say I'm not interested

Ana Wed 30-Jul-14 13:12:40

I never let recorded messages get beyond the first few words! grin

Elegran Wed 30-Jul-14 13:18:44

I have had dozens of the boiler replacement scheme phone calls. Now they have changed to a window replacement scheme.

sunseeker Wed 30-Jul-14 13:19:30

But Ana they keep ringing!! I can't ignore the "number withheld" because that's what shows when my brother rings me from Australia! He has some health problems at the moment and my mother is also unwell so I need to answer the calls.

grannyactivist Wed 30-Jul-14 13:48:13

I've just had a call from the 'Windows technical department' - hah!! The caller became very angry with me and ended up telling me I'm going to die in three days! shock So if after a while you don't hear from me..........wink

Elegran Wed 30-Jul-14 14:06:46

sunseeker your mother and brother must have chosen to withhold their number. when they phone next can't you tell them about all the nuisance calls that you can't ignore because of missing an important call and ask them to change it?

Numberplease, you too?

Aka Wed 30-Jul-14 14:10:17

Easiest way is to say 'hold on I'll get her..' put the phone down and wander off, have a brew or cupcake or a wine or play about post something interesting on GN. Come back half n hour later and replace the handset.

I love to think of them hanging on the line waiting.

hildajenniJ Wed 30-Jul-14 14:21:40

I've had calls from NatWest bank inviting me to take part in a short survey. What do they want to know, I'm not a customer of theirs. The replacement boiler people are now offering solar panels too. Is this new? I googled one number after they called several night's running. The number was for The Dog's Trust . I have a phone with caller display and ignore calls that are witheld or out of area. If they need to speak to me they will leave a message.

Elegran Wed 30-Jul-14 14:25:09

The Dogs Trust must have replaced Battersea Dogs Home as the false number of choice.

Gwoof Wed 30-Jul-14 14:29:23

I 've got a 'Callblocker' which connects to my phone. If a nasty caller (with a number) rings, you just press a button and they are blocked forever. Oh the joy of pressing that button! And if it is number withheld, wait until the caller starts to speak and you will recognise the voice and choose to take it or cut off.

Aka Wed 30-Jul-14 14:31:38

I want one of those Gwoof where did you get it from?