Elderly chatting

I don't know but if there is a cure I need it too because it's something I've become more aware of doing.

Oh petallus, sounds like me nowadays. I have to keep reminding myself to ask the other person a few questions to make sure they get a word in.

In need too - perhaps we should develop a cure we could market!

I use the excuse that I rarely get to chat face to face with anyone, but in fact I know my daughters were telling me about this trait years ago.

Don't think I'm overly chatty - my sister would put me in the shade for chatting! I prefer to think of myself as a listener!

I'm chatty too!
Bodes well for the meetups! Do you think we should warn staff to get ear defenders?

You are a great listener, Annobel, and I am going to give you every chance to prove it! But I do like to listen to your lovely accent.

If we didn't do it ''little,old chatty ladies'' wuold die out and that wouldn't do at all.

When I used to take my mum shopping I used to spot a lady pushing a baby in a buggy coming the other way and pray they would not make eye contact. Once my mother got started with 'Dear little girl/chap/soul', I'd be trying to drag her away while the poor mother probably wished she could get on with her life shopping. Sometimes it would take half an hour just to get down the high street. Checkouts were a nightmare as well. Staff are trained to be chatty but I would stand there thinking, 'Please can we just get on with this? I've got to drive mum home, put her shopping away then drive home and put my own away and I'm already knackered'
I belong to the miserable old crone brigade. When out shopping I do NOT chat.

My dad was a great one for chatting up the ladies at the checkout! Could charm the birds off the trees.

So glad others do it!

I often find myself really horrified after I've left a shop as I remind me of my mother!

I've just reread the OP - ELDERLY chatting!!!!!!! Can't be what I'm doing then!

I don't think I'm overly chatty but I do get digs from daughters about my tendency to 'go round the houses' when telling a tale. I'm encouraged to 'get to the point'.

where are all the grumpy old grandads, am i the only one? i cant moan about anything on my own, it doesnt feel right.

And me.

Hi johnl, i don't think we've met. Welcome. The grandads (grumpy or otherwise) spend all their time in Lil's bar. Perhaps if you pay a call there, you won't even want to moan, but anyway feel free to vent your spleen on any of us!

Hey! I'm a fragile flower! I don't want spleen vented on me!

Metaphorically, jeni!

I'm chatty also and I'm am going out this evening with the 'girls' and we will spend the whole evening chatting , wonderful

But that won't be ELDERLY chatting, will it, Annika

Oh gosh, all the time! petallus, and when I realise I'm in full flow I have to check myself by saying:
'But they don't want to hear that' or 'Too much information'.
If someone admires an item of clothing, I go into a lengthy explanation of where I bought it, how much it cost (usually a 'bargain' in a sale) how helpful the assistants were etc.
Note to the Birmingham Gathering:
I am very good at taking turns tho'

I am more of a listener - I find other people very interesting - I usually come away having learned something - even if it is only how awful their next door neighbour is (I always want to know why he/she is so awful and how the person I am talking too deals with it)

I am not elderly yet....am I....no.....that is the correct answer,
But I am a chatterbox,and like to draw people in,my son and I took his dog to the vets this afternoon,and before I knew it I was on paw shaking terms,with the patients and chatting away to the owners,the waiting room went from quiet to noisy in 2 seconds flat,....so when I am elderly ,I won't worry as I have always done it.we have Alan Carr chatty man...we also have Nelliedeane chatty woman....