I’m still in full time work as a civil servant in a demanding role in a military environment. My experience of people and how to get the best out of them serves me very well, as it taking whatever comes in my stride, bending and flexing to always met my timelines. I can do it all well because I’ve seen most things before, have a wide corporate knowledge which is recognised widely. I deal firmly but kindly with anyone that tries to dismiss me because of my age and sex and because I’m a civilian.
I’m very aware of older colleagues letting themselves drift towards retirement (I’m not putting myself out...) letting themselves be overlooked (they won’t want me...) being scruffy, lazy, indifferent, unwilling to learn new skills, adapt to new ways - everything negative. And they moan about absolutely everything, work and personal.
I’ve become ageless: younger colleagues are repeatedly bemused when I tell them I’m 61.
It’s bloody hard work and gets a bit harder all the time (luckily I’m not required to travel much) but I’d never admit that. That’d be the day I’d start to get overlooked and slide into oblivion like those colleagues.
It’s all about what you allow others to think of you.