It was interesting last night when we were finally told what happened and how the jury voted, that 4 women found him guilty, and they were all women who had had experience of abusive relationships - either personally or, in the case of the health visitor, with her patients and her work colleague. The young lad was very naïve and said something like "Well, he said he loved her, why would he kill her?" The men didn't seem to register the violence.
Like you, BlueBelle, I have picked bad husbands but after some very good counselling years ago I learned to recognise how I was abused, and my experiences have finely tuned my radar!!