While I would never gratuitously inflict gory details of a terrible event like this on a child. I would not shield a child from the hearing the basic details of this dreadful event on the news.
In the early 1950s when I was about 9 we lived in Singapore. The local paper ran a whole series of graphic articles about the horrors of the Japanese occupation and what happened in the POW camps. My parents went to great lengths to keep these articles from me, I was an avid newspaper reader, but I read them nevertheless.
The stories were horrific but they helped me to understand more of what was going on around me. Why local people hated the Japanese so, why someone's behaviour would be explained among adults as,'he was prisoner at Changi'. At much the same time I read many of the books published then on the horrors of the Nazi concentration camps. Again references to these were part of public discourse and it helped my understanding of the world around me. I didn't glory in what I read. I found it truly horrific, but it didn't give me nightmares.
We are very lucky that we can protect our children if we want to. Pity the more children in Syria and the middle east whose parents would give anything to spare them the experience of seeing and suffering the things we protect our children from knowing about.
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