My grandson wanted to learn about the First World War, so we went into the village to look at war memorials. Over the past month we have done lots of online research and found out that five of the young men, aged between 18 and 21, died on the Somme. Three are commemorated at Thiepval.
One is buried at Bouzincourt and one at Bully-Grenay. All these men were miners together, in the Durham Pals.
My grandson would never think of watching Antiques Roadshow, but he watched it with me because he recognised the names, and he was visibly upset.
We have been to the DLI Museum in Durham, and he has handled the guns.
I would not have thought of doing this with him if it wasn't for the commemorations.
He now wants to find out if any of my family fought or died in the war. Three of them died that I know of, and one came back but never spoke again. I know this, but will let him find out for himself.
He has watched lots about the war in short bursts and knows more than I ever did at his age. I do not think that's a wrong thing. My brother, sister and brother-in-law were all in the army, and can tell him how horrible and unnecessary war is.
Hopefully the more people see of the futility of war, the less chance there will be of World War 3 starting in the Balkans.