Okay, I'll 'fess up. I've actually come across the bloke a couple of times and both times he was as nice as pie. The first time was when my youngest daughter (aged 3) got kicked in the face (accidentally) on a bouncy castle. Richard M was there with his wife and leapt into action even before I could, rescuing her from the melee and dabbing at her bleeding lip with a clean tissue. It wasn't done for show and he was genuinely concerned. Nearly thirty years later I met him again one early morning in the green room of one of the TV stations; he'd been out sleeping rough the night before to draw attention to the plight of London's street sleepers. We watched my daughter's TV appearance together (he was appearing on the same programme) and chatted, I told him of his previous encounter with her and then he spent a happy few minutes playing with my grandson before chatting to my daughter when she was off air. On the same programme there was a very eccentric person who caused one or two people in the room to roll their eyes, but again he was very gentle with her and took great pains to try and ease her nervousness.
And yes, what he's reported to have said on the JV show was daft, but I think we have some idea of what he meant.
Having done that railway journey many, many times - including having waves break over the train - it's one of the most breathtaking journeys in England.
But I am now cut off from youngest son who only ever travels home by train. Boo-hoo!