I have the same problem as the scarf lady with a generous sized bosom. But my legs are quite skinny, so I have to be very careful how I put an outfit together so that I don't look ridiculous, like an upside-down triangle. Being rotund with skinny legs means that I can wear skinny jeans easily, but need a long top to go over them so that it hangs down well over my bust, and balances out the pipe-cleaner legs. However, I do wear skinny jeans a lot in the winter, and shorts in the summer. I take the view that if people don't like what they see, they don't have to look. I just the way God made me. I am 67.