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Grey hair and make up

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borstalgran Thu 30-May-13 12:01:27

Decided to take plunge and let hair go grey - starting this pm with blending in and a sharp cut. I think I need to change my make up too so it looks up to date. Anyone been anywhere for advice; anyone find orange-faced, scary women in make up depts who could help?

nanaej Fri 31-May-13 21:25:25

I have my hair coloured regularly. I have rather unruly, coarse curly hair which is hard to tame! I can't be -ars- bothered to straighten it though it does look good when I have had it done at hairdessers! If I let it go to its natural grey I think it will look really awful curly. So I prefer to colour and be curly! My mum was a redhead and her hair just seemed to fade from copper to strawberry blonde, blonde and then white all subtley!

I use Liz Earle products for moisturising and light foundation.

dahlia Wed 12-Jun-13 17:13:13

Yes, foundation is difficult when you have gone grey - easier when you are gunmetal and not an indeterminate shade of off-white like me! I found a new product last week: L'Oreal CC cream. It comes in different types, I tried the one "for dull skin" and it comes out of the tube purple but then blends in brilliantly with my own fair skin tone - no tidemarks, no blotches under the eyes, and it's supposed to be hydrating, too, with a SPF 12. I've been using it for a week now, and it has been foolproof. Now I have grey hair I need some added colour without looking too false, and this CC with a little Bobbi Brown blusher looks natural but gives me a healthy glow. I also use mascara, eyeshadow and sometimes eyeliner if I am feeling steady-handed, never to be seen without lippy!

annodomini Wed 12-Jun-13 18:27:08

My hair is white at the front and has kept some of its original colour at the back though that's going whiter. I gave up using eye make-up to which I was once devoted when I couldn't put it on either with or without glasses. I use Liz Earle moisturiser and foundation with a little cream blusher because I am naturally very pallid. When I use a lipstick it's a fairly neutral colour.

mrsmopp Wed 10-Jul-13 14:24:17

I did go grey a few years ago but the grey was patchy in places and very uneven. Fifty shades of grey in fact. No comments please!!
So I went back to using Nice and Easy in a very light brown, and I feel better.

My biggest problem with my hair is finding a hairdresser who really knows about thick curly hair and how to shape it properly.... I think that needs a new thread.

gillybob Wed 10-Jul-13 14:39:08

Oh so that's why you are called mrsmopp and here's me thinking you were a cleaner! grin

Having just returned from holiday my hair has the habit of bleaching itself in the sun, it looks almost blonde at the minute which does a good job of blending in with the grey!

Nonu Wed 10-Jul-13 14:44:52

Another holiday GILLY ?

Still you deserve it ?

cupcake

Nonu Wed 10-Jul-13 14:45:29

As I do !!

gillybob Wed 10-Jul-13 14:48:05

Another one Nonu? you are kidding ! it is the very one that I have been bleating on about for about 2 years ! grin

Nonu Wed 10-Jul-13 14:56:58

Where have you been then ? ?

gillybob Wed 10-Jul-13 15:03:59

Helllooooooo Nonu I was on holiday for the first time in years between 14th and 28th June.. It was touch and go right until the bitter end as to whether I would end up going at all as other holidays I have booked in the past have ended up being cancelled at the last minute.

mrsmopp Wed 10-Jul-13 15:32:32

Gillybob lol, it was either that or moptop.!
But I was a cleaner years ago when the kids were small and the hours fitted in!

Ariadne Wed 10-Jul-13 16:31:02

I know how I look with grey hair - post chemo showed me, and I could not wait to have it coloured. The front was almost white, but the sides and back were a harsh steel grey. I did dye it what I have since heard called "menopausal mahogany" but it didn't feel like me. So it is now ash blonde with lots of silver highlights, and I love it!

JessM Wed 10-Jul-13 16:45:20

Mine going grey with blondish tone as well. I stopped having it highlighted a year ago, after a little but persistent bit of itchy dermatitis. I count myself lucky that it has stayed thick and the texture has not changed. Have recently started wearing bright, sometimes red, lipstick, thrown all the neutral ones in the bin and making sure eyebrows are noticeable (dye, pencil, gel to keep them tamed). These measures counteract the faded look (well some days any way).

gracesmum Wed 10-Jul-13 22:10:50

And there was me thinking you were a platinum blonde! Never mind, the effect is pretty glam!

Tegan Wed 10-Jul-13 22:28:56

I realised recently that the brown shadow I've worn for years was making me look like the living dead, so I've cut eye make up back to mascara [albeit with not much in the way of lashes to put it on] eyeliner and eyebrow powder. Going to buy some Bobbi Brown blusher as recommended by the girl at Boots Opticians when I went for my eye test.

gracesmum Wed 10-Jul-13 22:33:05

If yu haven't got it already (and I do like Bobbi Brown lip/cheek pots) look at Liz Earle as well. Her colours are very delicate and I suppose quite English - great cream blusher and nice lippies too.

Galen Wed 10-Jul-13 22:37:23

I'm white/silver.
I love it! {I think}hmm

minky Thu 12-Sept-13 09:19:38

I just found this thread at the same time as I heard that they are going to discuss this on woman;'s hour today. I personally am not averse to going grey (silver?) but my worry is HOW to do it. I dye my hair every month or so when the roots start showing and can't bear the thought of the gradual root creep heading slowly slowly down my head. If the stripes grew lengthwise it would be much better! Any tips?

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mygrannycanfly Mon 23-Sept-13 13:36:05

Good for you borstalgran I am with you in spirit!

I can't see me dyeing my greys, I'm too mean/scruffy. Anyway I'd look awful without them as my natural hair colour is now too harsh for my face.

My DH has been dyeing his hair for years and it is starting to look a bit Travolta. He's reluctant to go grey, so I am trying to persuade him to switch to semipermanent at least on the sides so that the colour fades naturally a la Clooney.

I don't know why so many women of a certain age have orange faces. Is it eyesight? At 40 we need twice the level of illumination as in at 20 and at 60 we need double again...

Anne58 Mon 23-Sept-13 14:07:51

I can vouch for Ariadne's hair, it's lovely!

I'm still colouring my hair, but gradually going just a tiny bit lighter each time.

I have however recently changed my make up. Instead of black eyeliner and mascara, I've changed to dark brown. It just looks a bit "softer" somehow.

icepan11111 Sun 20-Oct-13 13:42:38

ladies with a gray hair are very atractive so go for it :-)