I have my own salon and I have a thing about eyebrows so apologies for the overlong post. I shaped my Mum's eyebrows when she was 60 something and she cried real tears of delight....afterwards we went out for a meal and she kept disappearing to the loo. She finally admitted that she was just going to gaze at her brows in the mirror in wonder!
I don't do tattooing, but a lot of my ladies have had it done and they are delighted with the result and it looks very natural when done well. It isn't as good as having hair, and there are some horror stories, so get a recommendation, My ladies are nagging me to offer it as they want a top-up (it doesn't last forever) and they don't want to travel, so they must be happy with it. It doesn't last forever.
A good eyebrow tint and shape will really enhance your facial features and take years off your appearance. Look on You tube for some tips. If you want to pay someone to shape your brows it's a bit like picking a hairdresser. You will get a better result if you stay loyal and visit regularly. IMHO anyone who has taken the trouble to learn to thread will have an interest in eyebrow shaping. But then I'm biased, I have had some horror experiences with young ladies dabbing wax on my brows without discernment and leaving me looking permanently surprised for months!
A very pale brow will benefit from some colour. Grey Head hair can look fabulous as long as it is in good condition, but the face often benefits from softly darkened eyebrows. Eyebrow dye colours come in light brown, various shades of auburn, grey and black as well as purple and blue. You mix up the shade that you want. If you don't want it too dark, don't leave it on for as long as the packet says - wipe off after 3 mins and reapply if you think it isn't dark enough. A good salon will mix a colour to suit your face. It needs to be done every 6 weeks or so, but the colour should gradually lighten back to the original - you won't get roots. Do your lashes at the same time, but go a lot darker and use lots of Vaseline and a moistened cotton pad under the eye to avoid looking like you've slept in eyeliner for the next few days!
Buying 2 or 3 colours plus activator and paying postage will cost you the same as several visits to the salon.
You can find tutorials on You tube to show you how to use make-up to thicken and fill in your brows. Or ask the girl that does your brows or someone on a make-up counter to show you. You can do this with powder or pencil. You need to use a good brush with powder. The look is slightly different and it's personal preference which is best for you. You want a grey/brown shade, variations on taupe. I use Barefaced Beauty matt mineral powder. I think one £8 pot will see me out! A highlighter pencil under (and above!) the brows looks wonderful. Outline the brow and then squidge the colour into the edge of your brows to blend. Use a brush not your finger. I use the Billion Dollar Brows dual concealer/highlighter pencil. Benefit does a nice one too. Make-up can only do so much, so if it looks too fake, get a brow tint (dye) and try again. You can use a Q tip to take off any surplus and to blend if you've been a bit heavy handed.
If your eyebrows are sparse there is a new regeneration product called Brow Boost sold by Billion Dollar Brows available by mail order (google it). I buy it from the UK license holder: Kerie Hoy who is based in Hitchin. Kerie brought the product into the UK because she liked it so much after using it herself that she thought "I've got to have this for my salon!" It works on lashes too. I don't think it will work post chemo though.