Can’t live with DH when no sex.

No sex is the least of your problems.

Why on planet earth are you still with this man and in an abusive relationship?

Is this the sil that is a gossip and you dont get along?

what does it mean, he doesn't get sex at home.
? elsewhere, the bother of going out ?? sounds odd.

Is it one of those 'interesting first posts'?

Not a first post Fanny. A search reveals several previous postings on a similar subject.

Thank you shysal, the search function doesn't work for me.

So without trawling through the forum, hithere seems to know a background story as she’s talking about him being abusive and nothing in this thread suggest abuse just a man who’s not interested in sex (with his wife, or not at all)
If there is a background of abuse why would you want sex with him

Hithere. How is it abusive ?

Lucca

Hithere. How is it abusive ?

Is Hithere referring to Op's previous posts?

Well I had a quick shuftie but they seemed to be about a son/sister in law or a urine infection. Can’t see anything about a use but can’t believe I bothered to look. I’m out.

Londonwifi
I'm amazed that you still want to have sex with a man who, in your own words has been cold since the day you married him, has been emotionally and verbally abusive to you and your parents, has destroyed things in your home when his temper erupts.

Why can`t he talk to you about this ?.
And i find it weird he confide sin his siste.
I would have a good chat with him as somethings amiss.
Wishing you luck.

Why would he be talking to his sister telling her he doesn’t get sex at home,! Does he generally discuss his sex life with his sister London? I think you deserve better x

FannyCornforth

Thank you shysal, the search function doesn't work for me.

if you search on google, put in GN in full and OP's username.

having read some of the previous OP's posts, i'm beginning to wonder....

Fannycornworth
You are right, I was referring to previous posts

London, I hope you come back on to post, looking back on your previous posts from January , your life doesn’t seem at all happy,( I didn’t realise you could see previous posts) please take care of yourself! Are you ok