Update on husbands unacceptable behaviour

I've been divorced twice and no one says it's easy, but you've taken the first, giant step and things will get better, I promise you.
I am more happy now than I have ever been, so hang in there
Miss2Mrs and believe me, all will be well, just give it time.

Hope all goes well??

That's great! You are a brave person and deserve to have a happy and successful future. I'm sure you will.

That's wonderful news Miss2Mrs, you have done the right thing, nobody should live with a bully.I hope everything continues going well and I wish you all the luck in the world.

Well done Miss2Mrs. I did the same thing 15 years ago and not one day have I regretted it. Yes, at times it has been the hardest thing to do to be a single parent, but I'd rather be without him as he didn't pull his weight in many departments anyway, plus he was violent. Good on you, look to the future, be good to yourself and plan some nice things for the forthcoming months. One thing is, when it comes to like Christmas (sorry!) then change what you would normally do and take on some new traditons of your very own. Learn to have a new life, it's exciting and scary but worth every second, enjoy!

Well done. It takes courage to up sticks and leave. You are one brave lady. Now you can be yourself, please yourself and get on with your life - and enjoy your grandchildren. Onwards and upwards!

You know what, the other day I was reading a thread that turned a bit nasty and I thought what am I doing on here. But having read this one I thought what wonderful support there is, really lovely messages. I too send you the very best of wishes Miss2Mrs and may life be happy for you now.

So many positive messages here wishing you the very best. This is your time! You matter and you have the right to be happy. Look forward and not back and know that we all respect and admire you xx

Very Best Wishes in Your New Life,
Miss2Mrs.
Change your name by Deed Poll and you'll
feel Tons Better IMO.

So glad you are in a better place now it won't be easy and you will feel sad I left an abusive man after 27 years Iwas very scared at times and I did feel I'd made a mistake once or twice mainly as it was difficult financially but now 6 years on I still pinch myself as I can't believe I've actually done it and I'm happier and feel more relaxed and content with my life than I could of ever imagined I wish you a happy future and well done you should be very proud of yourself.

Well done and thank you for updating us.You have taken the big,courageous step;the rest will be a little easier now.Warm wishes for your future happiness and freedom.

Best Wishes and very well done. I wish you well in the future.

well done, and every good wish for a happy future.

I've never believed in putting men down - that should be left to vets.
(Incidently are are many women who are far worse than any men - just in the interest if balance, which is quite hard to find generally.)

Well done miss2mrs
You are one brave lady!
'Onwards and upwards'.
I'm sure that the first step was the hardest.
Hopefully the next steps will be easier.

what a brave lady you are,i wish you all the happiness in the world with lots of loving support from your children grandchildren and family and friends.

Well done Miss2Mrs! How courageous and positive you are to take action. I wish you much happiness and peace of mind.

Be proud of yourself for talking control of your life

Congratulations on the start of your new life. I would advise (from my and other's experience ) that when you feel ready to get councelling for the abuse that you have suffered. It will have lasting effects. Good luck for your exciting future. hugs

It is always good to get an update and also good to know that comments from gransnetters were so helpful and actually shone a light on your situation for what it was. We can't always see things clearly ourselves when we are entrenched...

Well done there, it takes a lot of guts after a lot of abuse to walk away. Be proud of yourself as you face your future which can only get better each day.

Best wishes for the future, brave decision.

Very brave lady, I know from experience it takes a lot of courage. How nice to be able to eat what you like; when you like, same with television, reading, going out, all sorts of things many of us take for granted without being accountable to anyone. And the peace and the relief......

Hope you will be very happy. You have got time now to think of all the activities you gave up whilst you brought up your children and the subjects you enjoyed in school all things which you might consider doing now that you are free to follow your own wishes.

All the very best for your future.