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Dogs jumping up. What to do?

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DotScot Sun 24-May-26 18:50:19

I am the official key holder for a small park area nearby and I open and close the gates every day. It's a lovely grassy area and people often take their dogs in there and let them off the lead, even though there are notices on the gates asking them to keep them on the lead.
I am not a dog person, but I understand that some people are and I am a live-and-let-live kind of person. So I frequently pick up the dog poo that owners have 'not noticed' because children also play in there. BUT I am very anxious when dogs, sometimes quite large ones, race over and jump up. Their owners generally laugh and say something like 'oh she just wants to play'. Sure. But I don't.
I generally stop and turn away, keeping my hands open and out of my pockets (since one owner kindly told me it was my fault that her dog jumped on me because 'obviously' it thought I had treats in my pockets hmm ) and wait for the owner to control their dog (if I'm lucky). But in that time, I often have to endure the slobbery and sometimes snappy attention of their dogs.
Anyhow, what would the dog owners here suggest as the correct response to such dogs please to stop them jumping up and scaring me? Today it was two sturdy bullmastiffs. I was not amused.

Fallingstar Fri 29-May-26 18:15:46

I think is totally fine if people don’t like dogs. The worst thing is when dog owners state they wouldn’t trust someone who doesn’t like dogs or that dogs always warm to good people. Nonsense. I like dogs but that doesn’t make me a better person. People have preferences in life and that should be respected. Personally I don’t like horses, never have.

Iam64 Fri 29-May-26 20:52:14

Fallingstar, dogs have preferences just as we do. My spaniel loves everybody but walks off lead with me if I see children approaching, she adores children but I don’t let her run up to them.
My big lab likes most people but will stand by me if he sees a male he somehow sees as a possible threat, he loves his dog pals, loathes jack russell terrorists

People really need to be more responsible

Grammaretto Sat 30-May-26 02:48:14

I'm ok with dogs - outside.

I can't say I like them on buses, trains, shops especially not food shops, cafés or in my house.

I am in the minority I know.

3 of my AC have dogs, which they adore as do the DGC.
We had dogs when they were growing up and I liked our dogs.

It's the same with other people's children.
I don't automatically like them.
😂

Macaydia Sat 30-May-26 03:33:12

Pepper spray

Macaydia Sat 30-May-26 05:43:37

I will give a kinder solution: toy water gun with vinegar water.

ViceVersa Sat 30-May-26 07:25:50

Macaydia

Pepper spray

Illegal in the UK

Oreo Sat 30-May-26 09:19:51

The problem is too many dogs and too many irresponsible owners.
We went out for the day a few weeks ago and there were just as many dogs as people in a lovely small tourist spot.
Cafes full of them, streets full of them barking and growling at each other, getting underfoot and a complete nuisance generally.
It was a very warm day and am sure the dogs would have preferred a shady woodland walk or at home in their own gardens.We wished the same for ourselves after a while😄

Oreo Sat 30-May-26 09:22:49

Forgot to say that a big proportion of the dogs were tightly curley haired ginger coloured dogs which I thought was surprising.
I also think that the pandemic years saw a huge jump in numbers of dog owners.

Chestnut Sat 30-May-26 09:35:09

Oreo

Forgot to say that a big proportion of the dogs were tightly curley haired ginger coloured dogs which I thought was surprising.
I also think that the pandemic years saw a huge jump in numbers of dog owners.

I think there are many similar cockapoodle-type dogs (sorry I don't know all the new breed names) which are very fashionable now. They have cute faces and probably even more so as puppies, so people are falling for them big time.

I still have my I-Spy book of Dogs and there are many breeds in there you never see now, like Afghan Hound or St Bernard, although it probably depends on where you live and who you mix with.

Grammaretto Sat 30-May-26 10:23:18

Poodles don't shed hair so I guess cockerpoos are similar.
As for Afghans and St Bernards: they will need a lot of space and a lot of money to feed and groom.

AuntieE Sat 30-May-26 15:07:26

1) Insist that dogs are kept on their leads in compliance with the notice boards.

2) Tell the owners or dog walkers with such badly trained dogs that jump up, that you are not very steady on you feet, or that you are afraid of large dogs.

3) If the owners say the dog "only wants to play" reply that you are not fit enough to play with large dogs. Then ask for their name and phone number so you can send them the dry-cleaners' bill foro having their dog's mucky paw marks removed from your clothes.

4) ask the police and the local authorities how to tackle the problem of dogs not being kept on leads and being allowed to soil areas where young children play.

Iam64 Sat 30-May-26 17:39:22

I’ve seen a lot of criticism of the police when they’ve removed aggressive dogs for assessment as well as when they shoot one

PamelaJ1 Sat 30-May-26 18:05:43

I am presuming that you lock up at the same time every day? If so then blow a whistle as you arrive and then wait until they have all left.
You will always get the ones that seem reluctant to go but keep whistling until they get the message. It may take little while to get them trained but, presumably, the dogs would have leads on as they leave.
That won’t help with the poo but you would be safe.
Also put a sign up informing any owner that if their dog is off lead and injures either a dog or person they will be held responsible.
We were in a cafe just after Christmas and a dog bit the owner (of the cafe) he was very cross. The owner of the dog explained that it was blind. So why was it wandering around then? You couldn’t make it up!

Macaydia Sat 30-May-26 22:59:23

Thank you ViceVersa for letting me know pepperspray is illegal in the UK. I did not know that. Where I live people have to use it to protect themselves against bear and mountain lions.

Iam64 Sun 31-May-26 08:22:42

Pet spray is legal, about £5 in pet shops. It sprays air which usually stops a dog. Don’t spray in the face within hearing