We’ve had cats who wouldn’t tolerate a collar, others who did but would come home regularly without them, one who disappeared for several weeks then reappeared in the kitchen one day as though he’d never been away. One of our neighbour’s cats was found after wandering into someone else’s cellar and being locked in for a few days. When we “adopted” our last kittens, we were given a stern speech about how we should never let them out - we lasted two or three days of their pitiful pacing before we unlocked the cat flap. We’ve been lucky - all but one of ours were explorers, but never came to harm on the roads.
I do agree that cats need freedom, but of course understand our need to try to keep them safe. If we had another who’d accept one, I think we’d go down the cheap tracker route, to give us some peace of mind (and get him/her out of that cellar quickly if need be). It seems your girl’s given you no choice in the matter, Sparklefizz, so can only hope she stays safe and wish her a long and happy life.
I miss the woman my daughter was before she lost her husband
Infuriated by this man's attitude


