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grumppa Tue 04-Aug-15 14:30:29

"Passing" etc. all sound a bit uncertain, I suppose because of The Passing of Arthur by Tennyson, describing the trip to Avilion.

Alea Tue 04-Aug-15 14:18:53

I hate the word "passed" too! "Passed away" is a euphemism we are used to, but "passed over" sounds like Madame Arcati!

I am amused however by Mma Ramotswe using the term "late" not as in "my late father" which we all say, but "her father who was late"!
Makes school register-taking sound a bit funereal grin

kittylester Tue 04-Aug-15 14:14:09

I say died, too. When my grandfather died we received a telegram confused from my granny saying he had passed over. I was only little and it had me flummoxed for ages.

soop Tue 04-Aug-15 14:12:11

baubles I also always use the word 'died'. I would feel uncomfortable saying 'passed away'.

baubles Tue 04-Aug-15 14:07:56

I have to say I don't like either, I always use the word 'died'. As recently as yesterday when 5 year old GD asked me where my dad is, I told her that he died before she was born then spoke a little about him. She wasn't fazed.

Hermia46 Tue 04-Aug-15 13:59:50

Is it me, or is the use of the word 'passing' coming into vogue, to refer to the death of someone. What happened to 'passed away' ? It also sounds ungrammatical when used in a phrase:- he has passed.....