LemonJam
Doodledog - yes- as I understand it when a married person goes into care home the house equity is usually protected if their spouse continues to live in that property. LAs apply a mandatory property disregard meaning the home value is ignored.
The patient's savings and most of their pension/s ( retaining a small amount for toiletries etc I think- I am not a SW) will be used towards care fees. Thus the spouse in the home has their pension and must pay all household expenses alone. It can be the case the spouse in the home may find it difficult to maintain the home on one pension and may not wish to continue living there alone.
So- If the house is sold , and the remaining spouse moves out or passes away, the Local Council will then *include the resident's share of the property to use against care home fees*- equity released at time of spouse's death or point of sale on moving out.
Usually females outlive males, and many of the cases I see the husband has died, the wife continued to live in the property and then subsequently became unable to live independently and went into a care home. At that stage the home was her asset alone. Thus now a self funder and sons and daughters set about selling the property to fund the care fees if not found eligible for NHS CHC.
Thanks, LemonJam, that is what I thought. If Cossy's cousin is getting no help with fees, it may be worth appealing on that basis, as she shouldn't be paying them. Her husband will be expected to use his personal money to pay, but the cousin should not be expected to do so.
Individual cases aside, though, it really is time that someone came up with a system that is fair to everyone. As it is, those with money will be ok (although the incredibly high cost of fees will eat through money very quickly) and those with none will be ok, as the LA will pay the bills, but those in the middle - the ones who are likely to have worked and saved - end up having to pay for things that others get free and end up with nothing to leave behind.
I know that some see it as 'fair' that those who 'can afford' to pay should do so, but I see it as unfair that there is a two tier system that charges some and not others - particularly when fees are so high for those who have to pay them. Everyone deserves to be looked after when they are vulnerable, so the solution has to work on that basis.
It might be too late for our generation, but IMO there should be compulsory insurance for everyone*, or a cap on the amount that a couple can be charged. Maybe that should be worked out as a percentage of their estate, so that house price differentials are taken into account, and someone with a cheaper house doesn't end up with nothing.
I quite like the idea of IHT being paid by all, but at a lower rate without a nil band. If we all paid 10% on death, it should bring in as much (or more) than 4% of people paying 40% after a million pound nil rate, and would be (or should be, if it's properly regulated) proportionate. There would have to be ways to stop people opting out, though - it would have to be a compulsory scheme, and things like whether a couple would pay 20% would have to be worked out fairly.
*obvious exemptions for the ill or disabled etc.