There are too many generalisations for me in the ‘progressives/lefties/fascists/whatever’ categorisations of people. I prefer to listen to what people actually say and agree with some of it and not with others.
I do think that some of polities can be well-meaning but lose sight of what the real impact on those most affected by them will be. An obvious example is in-work benefits. Yes, there are those who can’t afford to live on low wages, so topping them up seems a good idea, but then people are trapped in a situation where they can’t improve their lives without losing money, and they have to declare any increase (a gift of money, an inheritance, a scratchcard win) and are told how they can and can’t spend it if they don’t want to lose their regular income. There is no incentive to increase their hours or to try for promotion, so when the youngest child leaves education and the benefits are lost, the parents are back to struggling on low wages.
Similarly, means-testing can sound fair if you have enough money not to be subject to it. But it’s not fair to someone who is above thresholds because they have saved or managed to climb a few rungs on the work ladder you find themselves worse off than neighbours who did neither. That applies to benefits (even child benefit is means-tested), pensions, care homes and more. Calling it ‘targeted’ doesn’t alter that.
There is also what I will charitably call cognitive dissonance. People who call themselves left-leaning and compassionate, but pay someone to make sure they don’t pay a penny more in tax than is strictly necessary. Or who go on about how fewer young people should go to university when all their children have been, but they can’t find a decent plumber willing to work cheaply. And those who live nowhere near deprived areas who sneer at those who do when they complain about asylum seekers being housed nearby, or schemes to ‘integrate’ problem families into estates with predominantly law-abiding residents. It’s the ‘bigoted woman’ thin writ large, really, but it’s very common amongst my largely middle class soft-left friends and acquaintances.
All the same, criticising everyone on the left/progressives doesn’t help. Far better to look for better policies based on talking to those who will be affected by them. It’s the aspirational working class and the precarious lower middle class who make up most of the population (I think - they used to, anyway) and they always lose out. They pay PAYE, don’t have enough money to make accountants worthwhile, but have too much to get benefits. They are happy to work for progression, but see those who don’t being given the money they have worked for, and they resent it. Labour needs to win them back.