Ilovecheese
I see no reason to resent people on benefits. it may look easy but the reality is that it doesn't lead anywhere.
I sometimes used to envy people who were at home with their children while I was at work, but now I am glad I was able to save in a pension scheme, and have more life choices.
I am aware of the restrictions faced by people on benefits, and think it is wrong that people in work should have to suffer the indignity of having their accounts scrutinised by others and means-tested. In the end, it's just so employers can get away with paying less, and leaving the topping-up to the taxpayer.
Anyone working full-time should be able to pay for adequate housing, heating and food. A working couple should be able to support a family. I keep saying this, but to me it is the root of the problems in the UK. Someone has to find a way to make it work - rent caps, tax breaks for parents, loans to employers instead to benefits to workers - I don't know, but I'm not a politician. Something, though.
I don't resent people on benefits. I would hate the scrutiny and dependency, but I do think that people who work should be better off. It's not just the income, it's things like discounts for the unwaged. I don't want to see people denied things because they aren't working, but it makes no sense to have a situation where workers can't afford things that non-workers can. I enjoy a lot of courses, for instance. They are expensive, so I ration them, but people on benefits often get them free or at huge discounts. It's the same with theatre tickets - concessions for the unwaged. It's not the end of the world for me - I could push the boat out and afford more if I wanted to - but I can understand a working mother who can't afford to take her children to an event resenting it when a non-working friend can take her family free because she doesn't work.
Do I want to swap places? No, of course not, but why is that the alternative? I know that a lifetime on benefits is not fun and that choices are limited, but so are the choices of people on low wages and pensions. It's not a case of the privileged on one side and benefit claimants on the other - there's a lot of ground in the middle, with people living similar lives, but some working to pay for them and others not.


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