Wyllow3
I agree - ludicrous on a library form.
Different in terms of a census.
Change has not just come out of the ether to reach a point when we can simply say, "best person for the job" and assume that there will be no. discrimination:
It's been based on real past discrimination and a combination of laws, raising awareness, and some quite brave individuals who have brought about this change.
I shall never forget the mockery and hatred towards a gay man at work in the 1980's simply because he was gay. It came out accidentally - he had spent a life of hiding: I can also recall the struggles of women to get equal pay for equal work, also well within most of our lifetimes.
Worriedwell 's example of the young man convinced he had been discriminated against is an attitude that has by no means disappeared altogether.
If we have reached a point where the questions the O/P's DD was asked are no longer as pertinent, then time for change.
Same where I worked in the 90s social services, our Liverpudlian boss was a real B, he was a nasty bully, one our the new male care staff was gay- he started singing 🎶 sing if you’re glad to be gay🎶 by Tom Robinson at the top of his lungs poor lad was so embarrassed, I walked out in sheer disgust & reported him to head office, my bosses line manager said, I probably took offence because I was sensitive 😩It just would not happen today.