M0nica
The majority of working parents manage quite satisfactolriy to give their children their breakfast before they go to school.
I worked for most of my children's childhood, including fulltime with a commute. My DH was away a lot of the time, but my children never went to school without breakfast.
There was far less help for working mothers whne I was dooing it, Oh, and I didn't have any grandparents living nearby, except for one year.
I am all for breakfast clubs for those children from homes where parents are struggling - ill-health, addiction, having disabled children, shiftless and feckless. But children from those homes will not be able to pay for breakfasts, so the only children who will benefit will be from financially secure and untrammelled homes. where there parents are quite capable of giving children breakfast themselves.
This is seriously not true.
Firstly, children from poorer families won't have to pay. Schools already receive Pupil Premium for many of them. In fact, some schools decided years ago that providing breakfast clubs was an effective use of the money and this has been supported by research.
Secondly, (and I don't really know how many times this needs repeating) parents who use breakfast clubs for their children aren't feckless. You keep saying that your own children were organised in the morning. Does this mean you left them on their own after you left for work?
Many children have two working parents - and most of them have to start work well before the beginning of the school day. I was one of many when I kept an eye on my children in the early morning, got myself ready for work and then took them to breakfast club (where at least I knew they would be supervised well and given breakfast), while I did my best to arrive at work on time (crossing all my fingers and toes that there wouldn't be traffic hold ups). Feckless I was not!!!