I have posted on this thread earlier, I've just remembered, a lady down my road who is extremely understanding and very patient with the foreign home care staff who attend her needs daily, was 'spitting feathers' yesterday when i popped in to see her.
She always has a flask of hot water, never tea or coffee. She requested this from the carer and within minutes the carer returned with the flask, my friend thought that was quick! So she said "This has been boiled from the kettle hasn't it?"
The carer replied it was from the hot water tap.
Another friend complained to me months ago about how the 2 carers that attended to her needs spoke to each other in their language above her and how it was rude and she felt invisible in her own home.
Its so sad, as i said in my previous post, its bad enough that time has arrived in their lives where they need help to do everyday things but to then face this further frustration is so very very sad.