Doodledog
*Especially when, most trans women in prison are in male prisons and have never asked to go to a woman's prison... because they obviously have more respect for women than some women will ever have for them.*
Do you have a source for any of that, VS? That most transwomen prisoners are in male prisons, that this is because they have never asked to be housed in women's prisons, that they have respect for women, or that actual women have no respect for transwomen prisoners?
There are a lot of assumptions bundled into that sentence, and it would be good to know which are made up and which can be substantiated.
As for the 'bad name' thing - I agree that not all transpeople are abusers. But the concept of 'giving someone/a group a bad name' is about guilt by association. It means that the innocent are assumed to be guilty because others of their number do bad things. Those of us who recognise that that is happening are not guilty of anything other than understanding how these things work. It's not unlike saying that sexism happens - it doesn't mean that the person saying it is sexist.
I believe the official figures (no idea what they are) indicate that a large majority of trans women are in men's prisons.
I can't find any reasons given for this (haven't really researched it) - so the claim that it's because they obviously have more respect for women than to impose themselves on a female prison is rather spurious. I suspect it's more to do with the actual crimes they've committed or logistics. I also doubt they're always given a choice, either.
And you're right - about the "guilt by association". Not something most on GN sign up to, I think overall we're more fair minded. The one trans woman I know, is about as much like 'Jade' as chalk is like cheese.
Recognising that trans people are unfairly discriminated against and often reviled - as indeed are other demographics - doesn't mean that you are indulging the discrimination by pointing it out. I know for a fact that my trans woman friend has suffered such discrimination - a more gentle soul you could ever wish to meet, though we talk little about it because we are both absorbed by our mutual 'hobby' (Baroque music).
VioletSky
For these sorts of statements to be allowed undoes any
possibility for an intelligent reasoned discussion and just spreads fear and hatred. I expect better from feminists honestly. Its saddening to witness and why I won't participate in this discussion further"
The 'statements' - that trans women get a 'bad press' because of individuals like Jade are true - I don't know how you can't see it. To be blunt - what effect do you think this case and the reporting of it, will have on the uninformed, the bigots, those that 'other' anyone who isn't like them; the type who regard all asylum seekers as 'illegals'; question the validity of the disabled, the unemployed, food-bank users, etc, etc? We're pointing this out, not conspiring with it.
What, in your view, constitutes an "intelligent, reasoned discussion"?
I would defend the human rights of all trans gender people - I simply do not believe their experience of womanhood, of being a woman, is the same as mine. It's not any the less valid - but it is simply not the same. We meet at the 'crossroads' as human beings, all of us, but we take different roads from thereon.
Anyway, as you're not going to participate in this discussion further, I'm not expecting a reply.