Thanks Mollygo.
Police launch an investigation into Ann Widdacombe death
Two thousand posts so far!
To pick up where we left off, I’ll repeat my post from the end of the last thread - I got home too late to get any answers or many comments. I’ll keep the formatting to make it easier to bold, but will lost the bold type or italics:
I’ve been out this evening, so am just catching up with the thread, and have a few questions, if that’s ok.
trisher, you seem to find a lot of this funny, but I don’t see it like that at all.
What was the point of the ‘spot the transwoman’ game?
As Galaxy says, you are quick to label others, and I wouldn’t have thought being called an ‘ally’ would have struck you as offensive, but if you don’t like it I will try to remember not to use it in relation to you. Perhaps you would remember that many people on here (me included) find ‘cis’ offensive, and would return the favour?
I also see myself as someone who believes in human rights and equality. I posted the Amnesty list of human rights on this very thread, after VS insisted that the human rights of transpeople were being abused. I asked which ones were being denied, but there was no response from either of you.
Human rights are very important to me, but I really don’t think that being allowed to undress in front of the opposite sex is a human right, and can’t see anything on the Amnesty list that is being denied to transpeople. If you think otherwise, please state which ones they are, and I’ll reconsider.
VS, You say:
Thats exactly what was said any time anyone asked for their rights... Others complained it violated theirs. It didn't and it doesn't
Can you please explain what you mean by that? I see it trotted out a lot, but nobody who repeats it has explained how it relates to the following situations:
Where there are people whose rights to undress in a single sex environment is violated by people asking for the right to use that environment as members of the opposite sex.
Where people want the right to compete fairly in a sport that they have trained for for years, but that right is violated by those who have stronger and differently proportioned bodies insisting on competing against them.
When people want the right to have agency over who touches them intimately but that right is violated by someone who does not declare their male sex to female patients/clients.
I would be interested to hear your thoughts, as I do see those things as violations of the rights of one group of people by another.
Also, what is it that you think that legislation has dealt with fairly, please?
Thanks Mollygo.
Correct Doodledog; as has the "women do terrible things to each other in prisons as well you know!" That's true. So why put a male in with them so that he can do more?
FarNorth
I'm a bit confused by the reference to Tim Westwood.
Do you mean we could be saying that men are going to find ways to assault women whatever we do and we're being silly to worry about self-id ?
No, but actions like that, by someone who is male have been used on GN as an argument that “men attack women and women attack women so it’s unfair to focus on TW who attack women”.
It’s not a good defence, but it has been used on more than one occasion.
Chewbacca
These incredibly rare occurrences are coming thick and fast aren't they FarNorth?
And it doesn't matter how many there are really, the fact is the only reason they can happen is because of the placement of a male born prisoner now identifying as a woman, still with a man's strength and body , with convictions for assault, has been put in a woman's prison!!
That is a very good article from Legal Feminist.
I'm a bit confused by the reference to Tim Westwood.
Do you mean we could be saying that men are going to find ways to assault women whatever we do and we're being silly to worry about self-id ?
Chewbacca
These incredibly rare occurrences are coming thick and fast aren't they FarNorth?
Yes and more people are willing to talk about them and risk being shouted down as transphobic.
Of course, we could be reading posts about what males like Tim Westwood have been accused of, as a reason for not saying TW attacks are appalling. I’m relieved we’re not.
I was going to reply to kjmpde, but Doodledog has said all I wanted to say.
Sorry = my post was to kjmpde.
These incredibly rare occurrences are coming thick and fast aren't they FarNorth?
I don't think that anyone (on here at any rate) would bat an eyelid at someone who 'lived as' a woman but was born a man. What we are saying is that they are transwomen, not women.
They are also very different from men who simply say that they are women, in order to gain access to women that they wouldn't otherwise have. It is that 'self id' that has caused the problems. For transwomen such as you describe as well as for women.
A transgender Rikers Island inmate with previous arrests for assault raped a female prisoner after she finished showering in the women's section of the violence-plagued New York City facility.
Ramel Blount, 33, who goes by the name Diamond Blount, pleaded guilty to the sexual attack in a deal on April 7, the Bronx District Attorney's Office announced Monday.
The 33-year-old victim, whose name was not released, had just finished showering when Blount approached her from behind, held her down by the back of her neck and raped her at the Rose M. Singer center on February 8.
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10755219/Transgender-Rikers-inmate-incarcerated-assault-housed-womens-wing-RAPES-female-inmate.html
not really an answer but I used to go to a car boot where one of the traders was previously a man. It was in a small village and yet nobody blinked. Obviously was a male at birth and now dressed as a woman- smashing legs. nobody appeared to be bothered . I also worked with a woman - may have been a man before (as suggested by my colleagues). I had no problems with the preferred new gender. I've never known a woman wanting to be a man. I was aware of a surgeon in the Leicester area who was held to be responsible for terrible issues after surgery - constant urination and other issues.
Here's another of those incredibly rare occurrences - a 60yr old who identifies as a 5yr old child and says 'she' is terrified of going to jail for assaulting young children.
metro.co.uk/2022/04/26/dummy-sucking-paedophile-in-a-santa-elf-outfit-is-spared-prison-16534222/amp/
The LegalFeminist on why pronouns do matter. You'll recognise some of the comments from those made on these threads by TRAs and their allies, and she perfectly articulates why they are wrong. Enjoy!
www.legalfeminist.org.uk/2022/04/26/grammar-and-grievance/
Magdalen Berns and, her ability to cut right through the trans ideology bulls***, is much missed. I'd like to think that she'd be relieved to see how much the tide has turned in the past few months and know that she was instrumental in that.
Alex Drummond is a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist with research and clinical interests in ADHD, and accredited as a specialist in Gender and Sexual Diversity. She also works as a photographer at Stonewall. 
I realised I hadn't posted the link, came back to do it and you'd done it 
I genuinely didn't go looking for this. It appeared serendipitously before me.
Magdalen Berns' take on Alex Drummond.
youtu.be/JkK7zisjoDk
It's rubbing women's noses in the fact that men just have to say the magic words, isn't it?
FarNorth
Here's the link to the interview, from 2015. I think Alex is still an advisor to Stonewall.
bzfd.it/3kb7TC9
Kathleen Stock refers to that interview as something that really opened her eyes. What does Alex do, puts on traditional women's clothing, no hormones, no surgery, but claims to be widening the bandwidth of how to be a woman. Utter patronising rubbish.
If you can don't mind a lot of swearing Magdalen Berns did a short take down of a bit of it.
Alex, a 'lesbian', said that he got a lot more attention from women when in his grrl (!) mode.
I'm pretty sure that those women saw him as a gender-non-conforming man, not a woman.
That's exactly the sort of thing I meant on one of the episodes of this thread when I talked about transwomen in beards (clearly flaunting their maleness) but trisher accused me of being unfair to women with facial hair, who might be mistaken for a transwoman.
It's blindingly obvious that there is a difference, isn't it?
Here's the link to the interview, from 2015. I think Alex is still an advisor to Stonewall.
bzfd.it/3kb7TC9
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