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the law as it stands on sex - part 3

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Doodledog Sat 23-Apr-22 09:11:32

Two thousand posts so far!

To pick up where we left off, I’ll repeat my post from the end of the last thread - I got home too late to get any answers or many comments. I’ll keep the formatting to make it easier to bold, but will lost the bold type or italics:

I’ve been out this evening, so am just catching up with the thread, and have a few questions, if that’s ok.

trisher, you seem to find a lot of this funny, but I don’t see it like that at all.

What was the point of the ‘spot the transwoman’ game?

As Galaxy says, you are quick to label others, and I wouldn’t have thought being called an ‘ally’ would have struck you as offensive, but if you don’t like it I will try to remember not to use it in relation to you. Perhaps you would remember that many people on here (me included) find ‘cis’ offensive, and would return the favour?

I also see myself as someone who believes in human rights and equality. I posted the Amnesty list of human rights on this very thread, after VS insisted that the human rights of transpeople were being abused. I asked which ones were being denied, but there was no response from either of you.

Human rights are very important to me, but I really don’t think that being allowed to undress in front of the opposite sex is a human right, and can’t see anything on the Amnesty list that is being denied to transpeople. If you think otherwise, please state which ones they are, and I’ll reconsider.

VS, You say:
Thats exactly what was said any time anyone asked for their rights... Others complained it violated theirs. It didn't and it doesn't
Can you please explain what you mean by that? I see it trotted out a lot, but nobody who repeats it has explained how it relates to the following situations:
Where there are people whose rights to undress in a single sex environment is violated by people asking for the right to use that environment as members of the opposite sex.

Where people want the right to compete fairly in a sport that they have trained for for years, but that right is violated by those who have stronger and differently proportioned bodies insisting on competing against them.

When people want the right to have agency over who touches them intimately but that right is violated by someone who does not declare their male sex to female patients/clients.

I would be interested to hear your thoughts, as I do see those things as violations of the rights of one group of people by another.

Also, what is it that you think that legislation has dealt with fairly, please?

Fennel Thu 28-Apr-22 17:33:23

Apologies for the DM - I read it to get a balance.
But I couldn't help laughing at this:
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10763779/Women-allowed-swim-topless-German-pools-swimmer-told-cover-breasts-says-theyre-trans.html

DiamondLily Thu 28-Apr-22 15:32:37

Seeing the fuss my husband makes with a minor cold, I cannot imagine the fuss if he had to give birth...?

Elegran Thu 28-Apr-22 14:28:45

"People with penises don't have babies" If they did, it might bring home clearly to them just why women say that men with penises are not women. Reminds me a little of the old saying that if women had the first baby and men had the second, there would never be a third. Maybe that should be amended to say that if men had the first, there would never be a second.

DiamondLily Thu 28-Apr-22 14:06:38

Peter Tatchell seems to have started a debate about whether a school should advise parents if a child tells them "they" are trans.

I think a school should advise parents of anything relevant, if it affects their child - they are minors, and parents are, ultimately responsible for them.

(Obviously not if the child discloses something about the parents being abusive though.)

Other than that, parents should be kept informed.

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10762383/Campaigner-says-schools-tell-parents-child-transgender.html

Mollygo Thu 28-Apr-22 14:02:08

SueDonim. I’d like to say it’s unbelievable! Sadly there are some people who will believe it. I go further and say there are some people who will say that because it’s now in writing it must be true. It’s still a lie.

SueDonim Thu 28-Apr-22 13:42:34

Have you seen the latest about men giving birth? I’m beginning to think that I’m hallucinating all this stuff. It’s extraordinary how people seem to have swallowed the trans thing hook, line and sinker.

reduxx.info/exclusive-midwifery-students-taught-how-to-care-for-males-giving-birth/?fbclid=IwAR3dWyyQCnrm7PaTowQuCvqpTekJTgCbM7fgj6qkOVbc_hZuxk8Zj1Uv9Ec

And the excellent millihilli’s response. millihill.substack.com/p/people-with-penises-dont-have-babies?s=w&fbclid=IwAR3-RM1s1zbITgPvjmDYP0lmQDAcWhYu_kvBdGIkfVxE4i5gfnHSPuzgHUk

Mollygo Thu 28-Apr-22 10:08:49

Sorry FarNorth! How could I have forgotten they’d fixed the vocabulary!

Doodledog Thu 28-Apr-22 10:07:04

I sincerely hope that there is a PR team beavering away somewhere looking at how the LP can turn this around, The tide is (I hope) turning when it comes to public opinion, but Keir and the others are behind the curve, and it could cost them dear.

FarNorth Thu 28-Apr-22 10:00:20

Oh, that's easy, Mollygo.

Transwomen can experience misogyny and sexism because they are women.

Tbf, I think misogyny and sexism could happen towards transwomen or transgirls from persons or organisations which regard them as female.
It doesn't mean they actually are female.

Mollygo Thu 28-Apr-22 09:14:51

Regardless of your politics and the fact that I’m in favour of all this being uncovered, I find these two statements incongruous.
March 2022
Sir Keir Starmer refused to answer the question of whether a woman can have a penis in the latest Labour Party confusion over the transgender debate.
The topic has been a point of division in the party for more than a year after Sir Keir said backbencher Rosie Duffield’s comment that “only women have a cervix” was “not right”.
April 2022
On Wednesday, Labour leader Sir Keir Starmer told the House of Commons:
"But I hope he (PM) has also sent a clear message that there is no place for sexism and misogyny . . . in this House, or in modern Britain

Iam64 Thu 28-Apr-22 08:01:38

I read about the paedophile with the dummy abd elf outfit, who IDs as a 5 year old girl some time ago. There’s an individual in our town, who dresses as a toddler, pushes a doll prank and sucks a dummy. Very chilling image h/she looks as they stride through the town centre, or attend public meetings, talks and discussions.
It’s good to be able to wonder about the personality under the dressing up, without being accused of either transphobia, or only mentioning ‘extreme’ cases. My life and work experience leaves me concerned about the potential risks to children, or very vulnerable people posed by these attention seeking, no doubt psychologically disturbed individuals

Doodledog Wed 27-Apr-22 22:39:17

FarNorth

Here's another of those incredibly rare occurrences - a 60yr old who identifies as a 5yr old child and says 'she' is terrified of going to jail for assaulting young children.

metro.co.uk/2022/04/26/dummy-sucking-paedophile-in-a-santa-elf-outfit-is-spared-prison-16534222/amp/

I've been working today, so haven't opened links, but have done it now and am amazed that this person is not in jail.

How can he not be a danger to others? How? Of course he's not typical of transwomen (far from it), but it is the power they have over the judiciary amongst other institutions that has given him this protection. It's madness.

Doodledog Wed 27-Apr-22 16:51:52

It is also unlawful to discriminate against anyone for believing that transwomen are not women.

Fennel Wed 27-Apr-22 16:43:19

I think it was posted a few pages ago that the only legislation on this subject is the 2010 Equalities Act.
Categories covered:
Types of discrimination ('protected characteristics')

It is against the law to discriminate against anyone because of:

age
gender reassignment
being married or in a civil partnership
being pregnant or on maternity leave
disability
race including colour, nationality, ethnic or national origin
religion or belief
sex
sexual orientation.
I wonder how many cases of which category have been brought and how many were successful.

DiamondLily Wed 27-Apr-22 14:19:46

They've tried homophobia and racism, against anyone standing up for female rights, despite the accusations being transparent nonsense.

I wonder what accusation will be next??

Doodledog Wed 27-Apr-22 14:17:56

I think that women mean so little to many TRAs - we are not male, we haven't even bothered to 'transition' to become weaker males, that we just don't count.

In the Brave New World there are men and transwomen at the top, then transmen, then menstruaters/breeders/cervix havers, who are only good for bringing forth the next generation.

If women did matter, we would have been listened to before now.

FarNorth Wed 27-Apr-22 14:04:22

Chewbacca

^A transgender Rikers Island inmate with previous arrests for assault raped a female prisoner after she finished showering in the women's section of the violence-plagued New York City facility.^

Ramel Blount, 33, who goes by the name Diamond Blount, pleaded guilty to the sexual attack in a deal on April 7, the Bronx District Attorney's Office announced Monday.
The 33-year-old victim, whose name was not released, had just finished showering when Blount approached her from behind, held her down by the back of her neck and raped her at the Rose M. Singer center on February 8.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10755219/Transgender-Rikers-inmate-incarcerated-assault-housed-womens-wing-RAPES-female-inmate.html

I missed this post earlier.

I used to think "It'll take something horrific happening to a woman to get things changed."
But it seems even that makes no difference as we see the increasingly frequent 'rare occurrences '.

This can't possibly be framed as anything other than a violent attack by a male.

Doodledog Wed 27-Apr-22 12:48:17

There was never any reason why it should have been deleted. It is not uncommon for threads to run to more than one part - deleting this would surely have meant deleting them, too. As for naming people in a post - what difference does it make if that post opens one thread or ends the previous one?

I can't help thinking that the 'spot the transwoman' game didn't go the way it was intended (whatever that was), but as it was conveniently at the end of a thread, it was hoped that the game would die with it. Similarly, the 'nobody's rights are violated' thing was shown to be nonsense, so rather than attempt to defend it, getting the thread pulled would have been an easier option, as well as an opportunity to show righteous indignation that pesky women have dared to question the rights of men to enter our spaces.

Smileless2012 Wed 27-Apr-22 12:47:34

I stopped worrying about it on page 1 FarNorth.

FarNorth Wed 27-Apr-22 12:38:24

That reminds me, this thread hasn't been deleted yet. Do you think we can all stop worrying about that now?

Smileless2012 Wed 27-Apr-22 12:34:47

Because their arguments are weak Doodledog, if they can't shut us up with accusations of trans phobic they play the racist cardangry.

FarNorth Wed 27-Apr-22 12:12:20

It's unfortunate for them that it doesn't make sense so they have to cast around for whatever they can find to cling to.

Doodledog Wed 27-Apr-22 11:23:36

Why do people trying to make an untenable case always compare it to something emotive and unconscionable such as racism? We've had it on here when we've complained about men competing in women's sports - because a small number of black athletes have been affected by sex anomalies anyone questioning allowing transwomen to compete as women is accused of being racist. It's like they've all been sent a cribsheet of standard responses to criticisms of their ideology.

Chewbacca Wed 27-Apr-22 09:41:27

Good ole whataboutery FarNorth!

FarNorth Wed 27-Apr-22 09:08:20

A friend has said to me that the statistics for male crimes mean nothing.
They compare them to higher figures for crime by black people and ask if that means I'd support restrictions on black people.