Well said gillybob, your family is a reflection of so many of us. In the recent past I commented negatively on Mr Js lack of loyalty in his previous marriages. People can and do change, here's hoping he and Carrie make a stable happy family for their son.
On your next comment, about the celebration of the fact this man was so recently in ITU therefore he may have died but is recovering well and is the father to a healthy baby -why not treat that as a joyous occasion