newnanny, your post earlier about how people should only have the children they can afford, and not to expect the state to pay for them, made me smile in recognition.
Quite some months ago now there was a similar discussion on here about 'poverty' in this country, and I made a very similar comment to you, only for howls of outrage from some, indignantly asking me if I truly believed that people should only have the children they could afford !
Honestly I thought I had entered a parallel universe, until I realised that, horrifyingly, that is what a lot do believe, that their children are the responsibility of the State.
That, in a nutshell is the difference between conservatism and socialism isn't it?
I believe that apart from a few genuine cases of hardship, everyone should pay their way in life. Socialists on the other hand of course don't.
I liked the fact that Pritti Patel quoted something Margaret Thatcher said 40 years ago, which she said is as relevant today as it was then.
Something along the lines of...…….
An honest day's work for an honest day's pay
Pay your way in life
Always pay your bills on time
Respect the police.
Ok I struggle a bit with the last point all the time the police seem more interested in chasing 'hate crimes', 'racism' and various other 'isms' rather than actually apprehending real criminals, but the rest really is common sense isn't it?