Children are arriving at school, tired, hungry, angry and confused
And why is this?
Tired?
No bedtime routine and rules? TV time or X Box game-playing not controlled by parents?
Hungry?
Cheap food like potatoes, cereal, tinned vegetables, beans, etc are filling - IF parents can be bothered to buy and cook them. It is much easier to leave a packet of biscuits lying around, or crisps.
Angry?
Why? Are they witnessing violence at home, or on screens? Do they lack self control? Can the parents explain why?
Confused?
Bewildered because they lack good role models in their parents, whose job it is to explain confusing things to little minds? (If they can be bothered.)
We have stopped pointing fingers, and judging haven't we? However, in the case of child neglect we bloody well should do more of it rather than using the cop-out that lack of funds equates with child neglect.
"There, there." and let's throw more money at the problem parents is not the solution.
It is shameful that children are born to rotten, selfish and uncaring parents, who cannot and will not prioritise the well being, disciplining and nurturing of their children. or prioritise how their benefits are spent. We live in a welfare state and despite Tory-bashing, it still exists and there are still advocates and agencies and funds for those with least.
The children are the victims, of crap parenting. Anyone would think the government of the day is responsible for rearing every single child born in the UK.
Can we start by DEMANDING responsible parenting? I appreciate it's not that easy, but it's a start. I know life can knock us down and keep us down - been there - but we do have to take some responsibility for ourselves unless we are sick and/or disabled/old. Being poor is not an excuse for child neglect.
It might contribute but a child presenting as angry, confused, hungry and tired has problems which its parent has to explain.