DD I do not have to look up facts,I know them from my work. I do not read the tabloids, you knew your circumstances, and not other peoples,Living in London where rents are high, 16k is a very low amount.
I would also thankyou not to refer to my partner as wealthy, when you do not know his situation. A very intelligent man who worked in factories doing hard work rather than sign on because he could not get the jobs he was qualified to do because of his skin colour.He then finally got a break but on a low salary and he worked his way up. He knew his son was not going to go through what he did, so he scrimped , scraped and done without to afford his sons education. If VAT was on top of that he could not afford it.
I totally admire my partner and people who work hard to afford this education and whilst I do not begrudge poor households free school meals I don't see why one set of parents should pay for others.
I would also add I was a single parent at one time on the old family credit, I did not qualify for free school meals and I did not expect it, its my responsibility, and I would not want it paid for by other school children's parents.
So you have a nice day*DD*and stop thinking every ones circumstances are the same as your own.