I'm not sure trisher at my DGC's primary they have a set routine for lunchtimes. The reception and yr 1 go first followed by Yrs 2,3 then 4 and 5 and finally yr 6.
My 3 DGC are spread out. Yrs 2, 4 and 6.
Youngest says school dinners are good. Middle one says they are okay (but there's sometimes nothing left she likes) Eldest says they are disgusting and there is often nothing left except dried up sandwiches and rotten fruit. I have seen this with my own eyes.
The HT says that its very hard to estimate how many hot dinners she needs as the uptake changes daily. I don't agree and think it is truly disgusting that someone paying (and lets face it they aren't cheap) or even not paying,for a meal should be given a stale sandwich and a scabby apple which will in no way "increase a child's achievement" Subsequently my eldest DGD takes a very nice packed lunch everyday. I do feel sorry for those on free meals who will not be in the position to provide one from home.
I agree that anyone sending their child to a private school (be they GP or hairdresser) should be exactly the same. I also agree that unless the private school can prove that it offers some of its facilities as a "charity" to the wider community, then thy should not enjoy charitable status.