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Looking guilty with hot sweats

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Winniewit Wed 02-Jan-19 11:22:49

This has happened to me heaps of times
I start to have a hot flush in a shop or public place,,My head sweats so much its dripping off the ends of my hair,,and I look positively shifty.
I keep thinking that I looks so embarrassed and guilty that store detectives may think Im upto no good,,And what if it happened at the airport,,? Getting stopped while passing through the green channel....all because of hormones,,
Has it ever happened to anyone?

MadeInYorkshire Fri 04-Jan-19 21:17:13

Saetana agreed, this summer was vile! Barely went outdoors at all if I could help it .....

Strangely when I have an absolute load of medical problems, I seemed to miss the menopause - I have Adenomyosis, polyps and a fibroid and had horrendous periods during that phase, in my 40's but I had an ablation and a Mirena coil fitted and have never looked back gynaecologically!

If only I could avoid the hyperhidrosis though, I feel disgusting, the sweat stings my eyes too, any make up runs down mu face so no longer wear it at all (never used to appear in public without my face on!) and my hair goes wet all over my scalp and the longer bits look like a rusty Brillo pad, all frizzy or stuck to my face. It causes me great anxiety so do not like meeting people and stressful situations if I can now avoid, I will. Doesn't make for much of a life now though, more of an existence sadly .... sad

Saetana Sat 05-Jan-19 20:29:59

I have very short hair which helps a bit - and I gave up wearing makeup years ago. My GP says I can stay on the mini pill until 55 and then we will talk about HRT.

Winniewit Mon 07-Jan-19 15:33:44

Chucky. Thats exactly how i am...sweat dripping down from my hair..running down my face and neck. Iv had to pop into Boots and buy some wet wipes,,
I go out with my hair all nicely straight and by the first 'do' its all frizzy,,

BradfordLass72 Sat 12-Jan-19 08:10:38

Sage is very good for hot flushes. Capsules are handy but making sage tea (dried stuff is OK ) also works.
It also helps to stop normal or abnormal sweating at any time. Currently it's 27/80+ degrees here and I'd be melting if I didn't take sage.

Winniewit Thu 24-Oct-19 23:59:16

Well an update ladies. Changed gps and went to see the new doctor. While chatting I had a hot do and he gave me a tissue to wipe my face with. This was doubly embarrassing as it was one of those thin cheap ones and bits came off and stuck all over my face. He agreed that I was suffering and gave me a low dose of hrt to try for three months. I can't believe the difference its made and I can't believe how ill I felt before.

TerriBull Fri 25-Oct-19 07:59:35

Glad to know your symptoms have eased somewhat. I tried hrt but had problems. Still have very hot moments, not so bad I'm dripping, I perceive mine come on if I'm stressed, not major more minor irritations I can feel the heat rising.

Alioop Mon 02-Mar-20 16:58:17

I was given Clonidine to help the sweating, only problem was that I then retained the water and my legs were felt so heavy and swollen. My older sister though has been on them now for 8 yrs and swears by them. I go so red too Winniewit and it is embarrassing cos I'm convinced everybody knows what's happening and then I start to get panicky. I've left a shopping trolley half filled in an aisle cos I had to get out of the supermarket quick! And this is only 1 of the symptoms......