I know one or two of you were quite friendly with Anya but I can't seem to send a PM to her. If you could ask her if I could have her email address and then let me have it, I would be most grateful. We both have grandsons of the same age , the same name and with the same problem and I just wanted to hear about how hers was getting on. Thanks if you can help
I don't think it was at all like it sounds (although I didn't 'know' GreatNan); it was probably an aide-memoire if she was helping someone with problems.
It wasn't great nan I thought about but another poster who had 4/5 name changes and was able to quote from earlier posts by various people on all sorts of topics because She kept track of posts.
She also kept referring to her faith, the bible and 'keeping to the rules' to the extent that she regularly consulted GNHQ about whether or not rules had been broken!
It's no secret that Greatnan was a dear friend of mine whom I visited twice in her apartment in the Alps and I continue to mourn her very untimely death. I never saw her with a notebook and if she did keep track of some members it would be with the intention of PM-ing them to offer advice or sympathise with situations they had discussed on line.
I'd like to point out that I was not being rude about Greatnan - just repeating what she had said on a thread.
I made no implication that she kept a 'dossier' (which sounds highly sinister and highly emotive) just that she kept a note of relevant bits of information. And she told us!
Greatnan was one of the first on line friends I made on gransnet. Her posts were always well informed and argued. She was a very interesting member of gransnet and her input remains greatly missed.
Yes s2B was one incarnation - unlike Greatnan, I fear her note keeping did have sinister and highly emotive connotations.
I remember greatnan with great fondness,and after a break from GN was shocked to find out of her untimely death,although very forthright she showed compassion to those who needed it,I also had an invitation to spend some time at her home,sadly I was never able to take her up on it
Yes mcem that particular person created a great deal of consternation for me and was the reason I took a break from GN for a short while. On the other hand I was very fond of Greatnan and always appreciated, and was a little in awe of, her forthrightness.
I'm afraid there would be some who would delight in 'outing' jingl if she attempted to sneak back in again. Unless GNHQ lifts the ban I doubt she'll bother.
I have a particular reason for remembering Greatnan as it was the publicity about the fact that she was missing and the help her online friends gave which led me to GN. I seem to remember Granjura was important in the search but she too seems to have disappeared. ?
She also kept referring to her faith, the bible and 'keeping to the rules' to the extent that she regularly consulted GNHQ about whether or not rules had been broken! Ah! enlightenment
I hope that if Ana and Anya are reading this thread, they will consider returning to GN, anyway, if you both are then I would like to say hello to you, and hope that everything is ok in your lives. Ana I miss doing our four Yorkshiremen routine!