I care Jingl !
I care enough that whilst I don't have a funeral plan my husband , and daughters for that matter have the gist of my -party- funeral details,
I don't want endless mourning and words by someone who never knew me from adam. And great music ( although I have decided against Burn Baby Burn :-) )
Every celebration needs planning , even this one and I want people to be treated to a Celebration of my life.
Maybe that wont work for all families but as the matriarch of mine I know them and it'll be a hell of a do 