We're in the middle of this whole process again, and it's so stressful!
Last year, we found a property, and had our offer accepted, without having to go back and forth with negotiations. There was no chain on either side. We were cash buyers with proven funds in the bank. We agreed to pay a refundable 'holding deposit' to the EA, to show we were serious buyers, and the property was taken off the market.
We paid for the higher level survey as it was an older property, and due to some issues that were flagged in the report, we followed this with a structural engineer's survey. All at great expense. We decided to press on with the purchase. On the day before 'Exchange of Contracts', having transferred our deposit to our solicitor, an issue came to light with the Title Deeds and we were unable to exchange. I guess it should've been noticed much sooner by our solicitor, but thank goodness it was noticed before we exchanged. We decided to wait it out for this problem to be sorted with Land Registry Dept., which ended up taking months, during which time we had other obstacles with the vendor. At this point, with great disappointment, we decided it was all too much stress to continue, and we decided to pull out, losing a great deal of money already paid to solicitors, surveyor and structural engineer.
Now, here we are, going through the whole process again with another property! Solicitor deposit paid, surveyors fees paid (awaiting report). Once again, there is no chain, and the house is marked as 'Sold Subject to Contract'. However, reading all the stories here, it doesn't fill me with any kind of confidence in the whole house buying procedure.
What should be a happy, exciting time, looking forward to buying what we hope will be our future home during retirement, is filled with stress and dread that someone else could potentially come along and snatch it from us. I'll be so glad once we've actually exchanged contracts, at least then I'll feel a bit more confident that it's hopefully going to be ours one day! Fingers crossed!!