It took me four years in total to make my move from East London/Essex to Weston super Mare.
First time I tried I obtained a purchaser and all agreed in June. He had told my Agents he was self-employed, and it was noted that this would mean mortgage may take longer to sort out. He did not mention the fact that he had only been self-employed for less than nine months. We got to Christmas without anything being finalised - took five months for a survey to be done. As we went into the New Year, I finally pulled the plug. It had made me quite ill with the stress.
Second time -twoyears later - (it took me that long to recover teh energy to try again), I tried for six weeks, during a particularly hot spell - had about three viewings and no offers. I was certaín, right from the, start the EA's price was far too high, and although I lowered it (twice) knew that does not look good on Rightmove.
So it started again last year, New Agent - who was excellent, in every way. Loads of viewings - and I went out when each one was taking place. Kept price as low as possible as I just wanted to quick and easy sale. Two identical offer came almost immediately and I accepted the one the EA advised - young couple, nothing to sell. Wonderful....
Two weeks later they went back into the EA to sign all the forms for the mortgage, had a second viewing, telling me how lucky they were to get my house and 48 hours later pulled out!!!!
Back on market, again - due to having a good price got a reasonable offer very quickly. Everything going ahead well that time, survey carried out, mortgage agreed - I even lowered the price slightly - as their purchasers had a financial problem and they had agreed to lower the sale price there, so I greed to meet them on that!!!.
Move arranged for August - started to get quotes from removal companies and whilst one was in the house, the EA came round - one look at her face and I knew it was bad news - the purchasers had pulled out - a very lame excuse.
I wanted to give up - my EA persuaded me to give them another month and within four days had got a new higher offer on my house. At that time I was also undergoing a cancer scare - and was beginning to feel as if this move was not meant to be.
Fortunately, following a small op. the bi-opsy came back clear, mortgage quickly arranged, private survey also carried out - (that was a stressful day, it was carried out for four long hours in the morning of the day I was attending in the afternoon at the Pre-op clinic at the hospital). Thirteen weeks after that offer, we all moved.
I swore then, and totally mean it - I would NEVER EVER repeat this. Here I am (fortunately, very happily) and here I will stay. The English/welsh system of conveyancing needs a total overhaul. Other countries (including Scotland) have such better systems in place. I will not underplay the amount of stress involved right up to that final day. My Solicitor (one I knew and had used before), was only really keen about protecting his company from any future litigation.
The nightmare five days it took to exchange three contracts and only finally took place because my EA spent a whole working day on the phone trying to make contact with the on-line conveyancing firm being used by the people at the bottom of the chain.
Okay, it is like having a baby - dreadful agony, stress and pain at the time - and once a happy move has taken place much of it goes. But it should not be like this.
I sympathise with any of you in the process of selling and buying - just hope that your outcomes are finally as successful and happy as mine has been