Dh and I also have different pillows. Mine is a very soft and squashy goosedown (was in JL sale) - his is much firmer.
I wash them regularly - especially after reading all about dust mites in Bill Bryson's Short History of Nearly Everything!
They go in the tumble dryer, which I use only rarely now - and come out like new.
Only 50% of middle age adult manage more than 1 brisk 10 min walk a month.
Soops kitchen, a place of reflection, refuge and at times revelry.



