Uterine prolapse advice please

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@pixelflow I’ve been trying to wrap my head around all the advice here, but I’m feeling a bit silly because I got completely lost near the end. When people started talking about the specific grades of prolapse and how that changes the surgery options, my brain just sort of froze. Does a higher grade automatically mean you need the mesh, or is there another way? Sorry if that's a basic question!

I feel for you, this condition is really physically and mentally draining. Waiting a year for an appointment is simply unheard of when you are experiencing discomfort every day and struggling with cystitis.
Regarding the estrogen cream: it usually takes a little longer (up to 2-3 months) for the tissues to become stronger, but if the uterus is already very low, one cream may not be enough. Many people are afraid of pessaries, but in fact they often become a salvation while you are waiting for surgery. If you categorically want alternatives or simply cannot wait a year, you may want to consider a private consultation with specialists who specialize in the pelvic floor.
By the way, I have heard a lot of positive feedback about the approach to women's health at the Brooklyn Abortion Clinic - despite the name, they provide a full range of gynecological care and diagnostics. There you can usually get an examination much faster and get a clear plan of action, which is important when there is constant pain and the urge to urinate. Hold on, you are not alone with this problem, and it will definitely be solved!

Multiple deletions too. Wonder if they have been 'retired' from the Forum?

Why do all the deleted emails contain men’s names? Hmmm…

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Re waiting a year for that gynaecology appointment, don't forget, though it seems not to be publicised much now, we do in fact still have the option of choosing a different hospital, so you might check the lengths of other hospitals' waiting lists Leavesden .

I had a ring pessary for 2/3 years before got to the top of the list for prolapse repair and hysterectomy. I couldn’t believe how much difference it made to my comfort levels. I walked Hadrian’s Wall and Offa’s Dyke with it! I could have continued with it, but decided to watch for Surgery and don’t regret it.
I had previously been told that I couldn’t have one because I was still sexually active, but new consultant said that was nonsense - that I could simply put it in and take it out myself. (I have never used diaphragm, but I imagine it’s fairly similar process.)
I know there are different types though - my friend has hers put in and removed periodically at the GP practice.
I could develop a stand-up comedy routine about the process of learning to insert it - which involves a springy silicon disc and lubricant…..you can imagine. But I quickly got the hang of it.
I would recommend everybody to use the hormone pessaries for good vaginal health post-menopause, regardless of whether you’re still sexually active, for the reasons that have been described by others here.
A friend who has had persistent UTIs has been prescribed this and she has not had an infection for months now.
It’s one of those things we just don’t think about as we get older - probably because it’s not something we can see changing, like our skin. But it has an impact on our general health.

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Health challenges often feel overwhelming until you realize others have gone through the same and found ways to cope. Reading about uterine prolapse reminded me of when a family member faced a similar condition and initially felt alone, but with medical guidance and support groups she gained confidence. Sharing such stories feels like Geometry Dash where perseverance and steady steps help you overcome each obstacle.

It's July now, so I hope things have improved for you.

If you call the secretary (and can do it) ask them to contact you if they have a cancellation.
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@dinosaur game I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with such discomfort—uterine prolapse and its associated symptoms can be very distressing. Since you’re facing a long wait for a specialist appointment and are hesitant about a pessary. Avoid straining, heavy lifting, or high-impact exercise, as these can worsen prolapse.

It might be worth your while paying for a private consultation, just to get the initial diagnosis done, while you wait for your NHS appointment. I know this doesn't fit in with everyone's philosophy.

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@speed stars Maintain a high-fiber diet to prevent constipation, which can worsen prolapse symptoms. Drink plenty of water to help dilute urine and reduce irritation.

@Geometry Dash Local oestrogen can take 6–12 weeks to reach full effectiveness, especially in postmenopausal women. It helps strengthen and plump the vaginal walls and tissues, making prolapse symptoms easier to tolerate. However, it won’t "fix" the prolapse itself.

Thank you sparkle1234 that’s reassuring, will give the pessary a try.

Hello , I've had a ring pessary for over 5 years . It was a little trial and error to start with but worth persevering. It stays in for 6 months and then replaced with a new one at our local hospital gynaecology clinic.
It takes 2 seconds to change , and not uncomfortable at all . I then carry on without giving it a second, thought . I also use an oestrogen pessary twice a week and non hormonal moisturiser to keep things comfy down there , both are prescribed by my GP .
I do sympathise with you , it's horrible to feel that everything's dragging down . I'm afraid as we get older and with the menopause , it's quite common along with atrophy .
Don't be frightened to try the pessary , there are lots of different types to suit . Personally I couldn't manage without the support mine gives me and its saved me from surgery which I was reluctant to have .
All the best ,i hope you can get some help soon .

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Thank you so much for everyone’s advice.