A lot of these characteristics also apply to sociopaths and their even worse relatives psychopaths. The entitlement, the using other people, the need to be in control and the lack of empathy for others. It can be difficult to decide exactly which label applies especially as they are intertwined.
It is explained here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dv8zJiggBs
Well, it's meant to be messy! The mole done it!
Keir Starmer stepping down as an MP
has any insight into these psychological disorders, I would be very interested to know.