Long Story
DiL has Crohns Disease which is causing severe problems and she's booked in at the end of the month for a big, big operation which hopefully will sort out the kinks in her remaining intestine, re-position various bits and other bits. She has difficulty maintaining a reasonable weight.
Last month she went to her new dentist for a filling and an extraction to get it out of the way before the Op. She had to pay up front. The extraction went wrong to such an extent that it took an hour and additional pain killers and it turned out there was an abscess under the tooth - which broke. So there wasn't time for the filling. That night she was admitted through A&E as the bleeding from the tooth refused to stop. The damage to her mouth was such that she could only eat pureed food for several days after and her weight dropped drastically.
Then the complication comes in. The dentist left (with no job to go to - wanted to spend time with her family). Yesterday, I returned with her for the filling as she was very nervous in case things went wrong (directly after the extraction she'd driven to pick up DGS from nursery and collapsed) - and they tried to charge her again for the filling. This is because it would be with a different dentist. She refused and the administrator argued for so long she missed her appointment slot, but after further 'discussion' they managed to fit her in as a first appointment this morning.
They have decided that, as a good will gesture, they will waive her paying for the filling for a second time.
Is it normal for a dentist to take money before treatment - mine doesn't?
Was DiL being unreasonable waiting two weeks for her mouth to heal and to recover physically before rebooking her appointment?
Has anyone else been charged twice for a change in dentist?
I'm still seething about their attitude. They were not nice.
Unexpected opportunity to have a few days break next week and would love some recommendations


