We've had a similar experience to KatyK.
My DH went to the doctor's after finding some blood in his wee. We have nothing but praise for the NHS. Yes it was a dreadful year. His PSA was initially over 100 and at 62yrs he was 'young' to get prostate cancer. It wasn't going to be a case of leaving it. Unfortunately it had spread outside the prostate to a node in his pelvis, but with hormone therapy and radiotherapy his PSA levels are down to 0.1 and have been for two years now. It can't be cured because of the spread but is being contained and we are more than happy when we think of how it could have turned out. He has PSA tests and Hormone injections every six months and the doctor doesn't want to see him for a year now. The hormone therapy isn't to be taken lightly but we both feel it has been worth it.
This is the second cancer that he has had since we took early retirement -both unconnected. I know there are issues with the NHS, but they have been wonderful with us. We've had awful times, waiting for results so I really feel for you baubles and hope that things work out positively.
His brother was persuaded to go for a test and he was diagnosed with early prostate cancer which is being successfully treated.
It's a cliche but cancer is a word and not a sentence these days. Our motto is 'We're OK until we're not OK'. We're off on a 'Big Trip' to America in a few weeks and intending having a splash for his 65th, because as he says - 'We're still here!'
Best wishes to all wives and partners out there 