I belonged to Gransnet for a couple of years a few years ago, but found it was taking up an awful lot of my time. I now have a different User name, and an almost different life: my beloved husband of nearly 67 years died a few weeks ago, and yes I am sad, and yes I am lonely, and yes I do start to cry at very odd times of the day, but what a lovely life we had together and no one can take that away from us. Thank goodness at the moment for family and friends. I see quite a few people are still with Gransnet, and discussions still running, I hope these will help me through some of the bad days, when friends and family are not around.