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Tell him to go and play on the motorway. what a terrible person he sounds.

Sell your house, leave the area and enjoy your money, I would not give the little so and so anything.

I'm another who says he should mobile into the condo.
Keep the house on yhe market.
Good luck. 🍀

Strange he's offering to help after you decided to sell ditch him son or not he will bleed you dry an he won't give a fuck what happens to you when the monies gone after all he will still have a place to live

You do realise that whatever he says now... whatever you agree to.. he will continue to abuse you emotionally and use his child as a bargaining point.
He will just keep moving the goalposts.. more money.. more money.. more money
So keep your 200,000 and live your life for you.
If you so wish you can leave money in your will, in trust, for your grandson for when he reaches an age when he can make his own decisions.

I wouldn't give him a cent after the way you've been treated Gurms. If you do, stick to what you've offered and if he doesn't think it's enough, he'll just have to suck it up.

There's an old saying isn't there that when someone shows you who they really are, believe them. Well I know he's your son but he has shown you who he really is and if you agree to this reconciliation, he'll revert back to the person he's been up until now.

As sodapop's posted he's using your GC as a bargaining chip, which only goes to show just how unpleasant he's prepared to be.

Exactly right tanith another entitled adult child using his son as a bargaining chip.
You should do whatever is best for you Gurms you have helped your family enough now.

Your house you can sell it if you want, hes so needy I'd tell him to go live in his condo and i certainly wouldnt be giving him money. Thats just me others will have a different solutipn.