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Hanging Baskets

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ExDancer Wed 11-Aug-21 11:36:28

I've been helping a friend look after her baskets of trailing petunias (as well as the rest of her, thankfully small, garden) after a small stroke has meant the loss of use of her left hand.
I am finding the deadheading of these petunias quite frustrating and time consuming.
She says she finds the process soothing and comforting, but to me its becoming a chore and, sorry to say, I'm rather regretting making the offer.
After the last spell of rainy weather she asked where I'd been as the petunias were looking neglected, she's very proud of her baskets - and they are lovely - and I almost snapped at her that I do have my own garden to see to, and after all, it had been raining a lot.
I know I'm being a horrid person and the season is short, but she's already making plans for winter baskets, and these plans include my labour.
What plants can I suggest that will not need my daily attention, I really can't spare 2 hrs a day seeing to her garden and socialising although I know she's been very ill a nd is lonely as her family live away.

25Avalon Wed 11-Aug-21 11:41:56

My hanging baskets looked wonderful a month ago but are now looking pretty dreadful. It is down to the weather I am sure. The petunias aren’t happy and have gone leggy. I am thinking of re-doing the basket but will probably wait to put autumn/winter plants in. You could try just chopping the plants back and see if they revive.

PinkCosmos Wed 11-Aug-21 11:51:01

Could you suggest a winter basket with miniature daffodils and ivy?

Also, petunias are a pain to deadhead and very sticky also. Could you suggest calibrachoa / million bells instead - see picture. They are very similar to petunias but with smaller but more flowers.

Just found this quote ' You don't need to deadhead calibrachoas plants as they're 'self-cleaning' – they automatically drop their spent flowers. Pinching back each stem (removing the growing tip) will encourage more bushy plants that will produce more flowers'

Hope this helps

PinkCosmos Wed 11-Aug-21 11:54:19

Sorry, picture didn't upload

Namsnanny Wed 11-Aug-21 12:02:17

Ooooo! If I could get a display as lovely as that, I'd plant my baskets with Calibrachoa all the time PinkCosmos.
Is that your plant pot? The only reason I ask is, I dont trust the sales or advertising photos!hmm
I used to use Surfinia, at one time.

Boz Wed 11-Aug-21 12:04:51

I understand your predicament. Summer hanging baskets are very demanding with deadheading, watering etc.. I would not dream of asking anyone to routinely service one of mine; it is a bind. You will have to tell the lady you haven't got time. It is just not fair to take advantage of your generosity.

timetogo2016 Wed 11-Aug-21 12:17:45

Suggest she uses tall pot planters so she can do the dead heading herself.

ginny Wed 11-Aug-21 12:20:45

I’d second the suggestion of ‘million bells’.
I think you will have to explain to your friend that you have not got and cannot spend so much time on her garden. Maybe offer a once a week tidy up.
You are not horrid person. I’d say you were a good friend.

J52 Wed 11-Aug-21 12:41:23

I find a hanging basket crowded with trailing Geraniums the easiest to look after, they don’t mind a bit of drought and are easy to deadhead.

lemongrove Wed 11-Aug-21 14:04:04

What J52 says ?

I have lots of hanging baskets, mainly surfinias and enjoy the deadheading bit, but as you say ExD time consuming.
Winter pansies are easy to take care of, but if you are pushed for time, be honest with your friend about the baskets, and as
timetogo suggests, help her get a few tall pots to plant up instead, that she can manage on her own.

Daisymae Wed 11-Aug-21 14:10:01

The best plants for baskets are trailing begonias. Just pack them in. They just fall off when they have had enough. For winter baskets, miniature daffs planted under training violas require minimal maintenance. However I would make it clear that you are not going to be responsible for their upkeep.

Ro60 Wed 11-Aug-21 14:17:36

The Best baskets I've ever had were trailing begonias. They flowered all summer with only my sporadic watering.

Pinkcosmos I must try you calibrations they look amazing.

Ro60 Wed 11-Aug-21 14:18:43

Aargh pred. Text changed it - you know what I mean ?

Whatdayisit Wed 11-Aug-21 14:28:01

I love calibrachoa but the last couple ofvyears mine hasn't been at it's best - half dead. I did get some million bells from JParker and they have been really bushy but not flowered as well as dxpected yet but still going strong.
I binned all petunias last night! I think the heat has not done the baskets and pots any favours.
Agree about the ivyleaf trailing geranium i love it.

I don't think that you have been a horrible person at all exdancer.
You need to be honest about your time.
Sometimes people don't appreciate what you do for them.

toscalily Wed 11-Aug-21 14:31:52

I can understand the reluctance to spend lots of time deadheading, especially if you have your own garden to deal with as well. Perhaps suggest an arrangement of trailing ivy, winter cyclamen or violas (last better than Pansy's) and one of the miniature / small shrubby type of conifers which should need very little attention through the winter. What ever you do don't plant calibrachoa / million bells if you are in the UK as they won't last long once planted as they are not winter hardy.

toscalily Wed 11-Aug-21 15:02:40

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

toscalily Wed 11-Aug-21 15:07:58

Ooops! will ask for it to be removed blush

ginny Wed 11-Aug-21 15:34:40

Oh, I wouldn’t mind a hanging basket full of ever growing muffins. A pleasure to deadhead.

Nortsat Wed 11-Aug-21 15:40:19

ginny, I agree ?

Soroptimum Wed 11-Aug-21 15:40:43

ginny

Oh, I wouldn’t mind a hanging basket full of ever growing muffins. A pleasure to deadhead.

grin

PinkCosmos Wed 11-Aug-21 15:50:57

Namsnanny

Ooooo! If I could get a display as lovely as that, I'd plant my baskets with Calibrachoa all the time PinkCosmos.
Is that your plant pot? The only reason I ask is, I dont trust the sales or advertising photos!hmm
I used to use Surfinia, at one time.

No. It was just a picture I found on the internet for illustration purposes. I do believe it was from J Parkers (hope I don't get done for copyright) which is a mail order plant website. I think they sell the plug plants in a range of colours.

I did grow pink ones last year but I bough them at a garden centre. They were quite bright. They are more commonly known as million bells.

PinkCosmos Wed 11-Aug-21 15:52:57

Toscalily - What ever you do don't plant calibrachoa / million bells if you are in the UK as they won't last long once planted as they are not winter hardy.

This is correct. I would treat them as annuals - as you do petunias. They are available as plug/small plants around the same time in late spring.

Shelflife Wed 11-Aug-21 16:26:43

Some sound advice on this thread about appropriate plants for hanging baskets - however ExDancer you are not a horrid person nor or you responsible for maintaining your friends hanging baskets. An initial generous offer has now become a chore! I understand your reluctance to speak to your friend and she is probably unaware of how you feel. Please speak to her and explain it is all too much when you have your own garden to maintain. A dilema , however if you don't speak out the problem will not be resolved. Be brave and good luck !