I've been helping a friend look after her baskets of trailing petunias (as well as the rest of her, thankfully small, garden) after a small stroke has meant the loss of use of her left hand.
I am finding the deadheading of these petunias quite frustrating and time consuming.
She says she finds the process soothing and comforting, but to me its becoming a chore and, sorry to say, I'm rather regretting making the offer.
After the last spell of rainy weather she asked where I'd been as the petunias were looking neglected, she's very proud of her baskets - and they are lovely - and I almost snapped at her that I do have my own garden to see to, and after all, it had been raining a lot.
I know I'm being a horrid person and the season is short, but she's already making plans for winter baskets, and these plans include my labour.
What plants can I suggest that will not need my daily attention, I really can't spare 2 hrs a day seeing to her garden and socialising although I know she's been very ill a nd is lonely as her family live away.
Lest we forget what we have just lost ....



