@Greyduster I had one like yours, even when I pointed a plant out & said "that's not a weed" I would find he'd got rid of it
. Sadly I've been widowed for 7 years.
I moved over 5 years ago , small but neglected garden. It's still a work in progress
. I have lots of Hostas, slugs prefer the light coloured leaf varieties, my green & white leaf ones are shredded
, dark blue/green is untouched, shame it's no the most attractive Hosta.
I discovered years ago that snails can move over very rough surfaces, discovered one almost up to our bedroom (upstairs) window, house had rough texture walls
. Slugs can squeeze through the smallest gaps under doors
Poppies don't conform to any rules. Plants mysteriously appear or move around the garden.
Plants select the soil they like, many of mine have crept under the Larch Lap fence from my neighbour's garden, my soil (inherited from previous owner) is much better than hers. I have a rose, ground cover & a lovely shrub which the bees adore, she still has the original plants
I love sitting in the garden & enjoying the sun whilst making lists in my mind of jobs to do, I may or may not do them that day, the following day, sometime, never