My DD worked on a cooked meats stall in our local covered market as a Saturday girl when she was 16. They sold the ends of the various cooked meats - all mixed up - very cheaply. One day a woman asked her for the best whole pieces from the pile of ends as she was having visitors for tea! DD was horrified! 
AIBU to say that husband was irresponsible?
Please hold my dear GD in your heart for a few days.
Programme on ADHD this evening

no thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!